Wife and guy telling "nice" things between....

InChargeMan · 2019-05-09T05:43:37+00:00

What if I told you....Sidebar

KoolAidMan7980 · 2019-05-09T03:19:55+00:00

When youre snooping through your SO’s phone, your relationship is probably DOA already.

NoCoast82 · 2019-05-09T03:22:24+00:00

She is not yours it is just your turn, what is your next move?

SBIII · 2019-05-09T08:59:11+00:00

Women almost always keep orbiters around - either for validation purposes, feelz or maybe to fuck them if the mood grabs them or branch swing to them if they provide them with what they are seeking. If you are a high value man, it's most likely just for validation - very few women will cheat on a high value man, even less women will branch swing.

You're a low value man. You're a SAHD and a classic Nice Guy with no income and your wife isn't fucking you because she finds you unnatractive. In your current state, I doubt you would find any woman to fuck you, because you are unnatractive. All those traits that you read about that women find attractive in men.. you don't possess any of them.

Then you snoop on your wife's phone, find a red flag and become even more unntractive by mate guarding. And what does she do? She doesn't give a flying fuck. She has no respect for you.

Is she fucking this guy? Possibly. If not, will she fuck this guy? Maybe. If she doesn't fuck this guy, will she fuck someone else? Likely.

Why..? Because you''re a SAHD and a classic Nice Guy with no income and your wife isn't fucking you because she finds you unnatractive. How long do you think she will put up with wasting her time with you? How long do you think she can live without the things she craves from a man? How long do you think it will be until a man comes into her life and offers her the things that you are incapable of providing? How long can any woman go without getting the feelz and tingles she desperately needs?

But more importantly - how long will it be before you decide to concentrate on yourself and focus on becoming attractive? To really work at becoming the type of man that no woman would cheat on but most women would want to cheat on with?

That's the place you need to get to. When you get there, you don't have to worry about your wife having orbiters. When you get there, you don't even have to worry about your wife cheating.. not saying that she won't but when you get there, you get to the position where you could replace her in a heartbeat with a younger and hotter model.

You need to get to the point where you don't care what your wife does on her phone but she cares about what you do on yours.

So when are you going to get there?

Startlivingfornow · 2019-05-09T04:11:06+00:00

Your snooping confirmed your suspicions. You can either start working on yourself or continue down this path to who the fuck cares where.

Read the post on dread game.

Dialerstring · 2019-05-09T03:37:26+00:00

Holy FUCK!!!! She added an emoji!!!!! GTFOH. There is a lot missing to this story; but either way you have your boundaries and she has hers. Enforce your boundaries if you have any.

RandomlyChosenTitle · 2019-05-09T16:01:24+00:00

When I said those things to her, she doesn't give a fuck

What are your expectations when you tell her these things? You've built some covert contracts here, and you're looking for sex/reciprocation/validation in return. She already finds you unattractive, and the inherent neediness is this type of validation seeking is only making the problem worse. If you were complimenting her from a place of abundance, her reaction wouldn't matter so much to you.

Yesterday I looked at her cell phone

This was quoted from one of your earlier posts, and you were advised then to cut it out. You really need to knock that shit off. Every time you do this, you're doubling down on the weak, needy behavior that got you here. You can be the wealthiest, funniest, most jacked guy on the planet and you're still a bitch if you're this needy.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2019-05-09T16:37:09+00:00

She’s getting a beta hit (of serotonin) off this loser - red flag- something you’re not giving her.

Need both alpha and beta components.

GoodWillFunky · 2019-05-09T20:44:32+00:00

I’m glad you’re back. I’m not glad you’re not getting it yet after so many bitchslaps. Dude stop giving a fuck about your wife, you give far too many fucks. Forget about her and get on with your mission. She will get on the boat or she won’t. Stoicism man. If you’re not able to master your life and the reactions you have because of the life you’re giving to yourself, you will never be able to master anything else. Just stop chasing ghosts and go and do something that YOU enjoy. Live your life for yourself m. If she wants to fuck the orbiter SHE WILL, and you will never find out. This is one of the consequences of your behavior. If your wife changes her attitude towards you is because you’re earning her respect through your changes. And if you don’t earn her respect who cares. The next one will or will not. All depends on YOU. Get off your wife’s phone and go and squat heavy weight until you get hemorrhoids

bowhunter857 · 2019-05-09T03:26:35+00:00

What is with the pure garbage that’s been posted here lately. This isn’t MRP related at all.

go-RED-go · 2019-05-09T08:45:33+00:00

So what's the question exactly? What do you expect us to do? Help you get trough your emotion of being pissed?

You should be pissed at yourselft. This situation is just an indicator where your marriage stands on the shit scale. And it's not very good.

So, what are you going to about it?

Title	Wife and guy telling "nice" things between....
Author	FinancialLeopard5
Upvotes	0
Comments	28
Date	May 9, 2019 3:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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