So basically I met this girl at the bar about a week ago. Went out with her last week on our first date. We met up on campus at the water fountain and chilled outside on the grass.

Yesterday I met up with her at a local pub and we got food and drinks.

She informs me that she is a virgin once I stirred the conversation down that direction but she had "done things" with guys before. lol I call her bluff on this and say she isn't a virgin.

Afterwards we walk across campus and I walk to her apartment and I was going in that direction anyway because I was going to see my other friends.

At her front door I tried to kiss her and she tells me "She can't" blah blah.(Granted: I made out with her the first night I met her at the bar). I think trying to kiss her at her front door was a mistake I remember reading from Chateau Heartiste blog to not try and go for a makeout at a girls front door.

Anyway I am a decent looking guy probably a 7/7.5. Athletic build could be more jacked and may bump me up. Black guy. This girl is white btw.

Here is the messages she sent me this morning...Thoughts on whats going on? How should I reply?

Message #1: http://tinypic.com/r/35kjtx2/9 Message #2: http://tinypic.com/r/2d0yhhy/9

Update: Here is her most recent response after me saying "Ok"...

"I just think any speed feels too quick right now and that's not fair to you :( Thanks for understanding ___. You just deserve better, and for someone to be ready for you. I hope the best for you and don't be a stranger if you see me at the bar :)"

After this message I know what I need to do...Charge her to the game "aka" NEXT HER.