A little background... I'm totally new to TRP, and I had recently been off and on dating this girl for a few months, almost all of which was pre-TRP and I was doing things all wrong. A bit of background on this girl - 23, fit & petite - probably an HB8, super smart, independent, makes $80k+/ year, runs a podcast and does local standup comedy. Definitely a girl capable of creating oneitis in the uninitiated. We've known each other since HS and were flirty back then but always in relationships with other people. We hadn't really been in contact until the last couple months when I started to try to make something happen.

I took this girl on some amazing dates, and it genuinely felt like we had a great connection. I heard from one of her good friends that she had said I had taken her on "the funnest date of her life". She was also really shitty to me though, and would bail on things last minute. She always had excuses that seemed fishy, but which I couldn't be mad about if they were true. She also had made excuses before about not wanting to move things forward sexually or as far as any sort of commitment, excuses such as being sexually abused in the past, and having a really controlling ex. Being a total AFC beta, I went the patient and understanding route and just kept doing all the nice things for her without any real benefit (even kissing), in hopes that I would prove that I was a quality dude that deserved her affection. Despite doing most things wrong, I did from the outset try to make sure I wasn't friend-zoned and my intent wasn't masked. I had even asked her flat out if I was only a friend and she told me that I definitely wasn't and there was potential. Given what I know now, I think she was just saying that to keep me around and willing to blow a bunch of cash on her.

Post TRP, I realized I definitely had oneitis for this girl, and I stopped being a total pushover. I started spinning some more plates and took her down off of the pedestal I had placed her on. We still went out again though, and it seemed great. We had great conversation, laughed a ton, were flirty and touchy and I finally made a move. No sex, but we made out for quite a while. She initiated planning a next date for the following Friday, and I was planning on trying to either fuck her or next her that night. Come Thursday that week, she sends a text saying "we planned for next Friday, right, not this one?" and said she had a hair appointment really early Saturday so she thought she had said the next week. She said she wanted to be in and in bed early that Friday night. I wasn't sure I bought that, so I asked her if that was her way of backing out. Of course, she said no and insisted that she had thought it was the next week and tried to rationalize it. I probably shouldn't have, but I agreed to plan on the following Friday. Come Friday when I thought we planned for, I see on her IG story that she was at a party, not at home trying to go to bed early. I replied to it and said just "dude, at least hide your story from me". She sent several responses trying to justify it and make it match what she had told me. I didn't reply at all and wasn't planning on ever doing so.

I was just going to ghost her, but then a few days later she sends a text with an LJBF. It had a lot of the typical LJBF stuff, that she wasn't ready for any type of relationship and that she valued our friendship, etc.. I didn't reply to that either, and I was just going to let things go and never talk to her again.

Today I found out from a friend that she mentioned on her podcast that she was dating someone (not me, because she said he was a dad). This was recorded just days after we made out, and a couple days before the LJBF text. Where my question comes into play is whether or not I should call her out for the blatant BS. In the LJBF she had said she's just not in a good place to date, but we could be friends and maybe try to date somewhere down the line. She also tried to place the blame completely on me for damaging our "friendship" by kissing her. She acted like it was a one-off thing that I just surprised her with, yet in reality we made out several times throughout the night and she acted pretty into it. She then tried to reiterate that she really thought she had planned for the next week. I would've fallen for all that 100% pre-TRP. Now that I know that she's definitely lied in these two instances (bailing on the date with me and dating the other dude), there are about 5 others that I know she was lying about as well.

It's been 3 days since the LJBF, and I haven't contacted her at all. The question is do I call her out now that I heard the podcast and have solid 100% evidence she's full of shit? I have zero interest in seeing her ever again, but I also don't want her to be able to feel that she is in the right or that I don't know exactly what she was doing and how fucked it was.

There's still a lot of background that I could provide for further clarification, but I don't want this to get too much more lengthy. If I'm still way off in my thinking, let me know. It's only been about a month since I read the Rational Male and discovered TRP and I'm trying to absorb everything still.

*Edited to add:

TLDR: After a history of multiple dates and multiple last minute cancellations from a chick I had oneitis for, I discovered concrete proof that she was lying about a lot of stuff and basically just using me for fun dates. I had ignored her LJBF from a few days ago, but now that I found that it was laced with a bunch of lies, I was tempted to call her out on them and reject the LJBF because of that.

Based on comments so far, that's 100% a bad idea. She's been blocked and her number deleted.