Comfort test or low interest

Jabbermouth · 2019-09-16T19:36:49+00:00

Bro she doubled texted you TWICE.

Either you are Chad or this girl is stage 5 clinger.

Anyways this is a shit test. Send her your number and tell her to text you. She will.

El_Professor9 · 2019-09-16T19:33:52+00:00

Shit test

infamous3238 · 2019-09-16T19:35:01+00:00

There’s a large amount of girls on these apps, especially if their age is 18, who are using them for validation/entertainment with their friends.

Good job getting to the point quickly. If she doesn’t give out her number then move on. That’s how you make your time on these apps efficient.

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-09-16T19:51:59+00:00

Good job being speedy and to the point.

I would have rephrased the text to.. (telling her instead of asking)

"Heading hiking this Thursday let me get your number"

Not sure if a comfort task; Was this the only message you had with her?

I'd just respond with "bummer" as it is her loss.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-09-16T21:34:17+00:00

You have 2 options:

1)dont waste time with this BS. When a chick is really feeling you there wont be any games(or VERY little). Shit will be so easy youll be like "is this really happening this easily?" to yourself.

2)"ok heres mine ____. Text me tonight/tomorrow morning/whatever time." this is giving her instructions on when to contact you as a way of testing her.

eliteomegabc · 2019-09-16T20:14:47+00:00

Well here’s mine “your number” and then don’t respond at all and leave it up to her to message you

rizzyfromthe9 · 2019-09-17T02:47:18+00:00

First of all it’s not a comfort test you’ve never even fucking met her lol

Second, she doubled texted twice so she looks desperate and doesn’t want you to think she’s easy

Third, Tell her “okay, here’s mine then. Text me etc”

bowhunter857 · 2019-09-16T19:43:39+00:00

Neither......

zHelios · 2019-09-16T20:46:30+00:00

Comfort tests come long into a ltr

MultiMidsets · 2019-09-16T21:44:21+00:00

Yubo 😂

l1ght- · 2019-09-16T22:19:05+00:00

I’ve read the thread and I know you’re going to go with “bummer”. I kinda like it also, however, I’d personally go with “okay, message me #”

It basically says “I don’t care, if you want to talk to me it will be via this method”.

[deleted] · 2019-09-17T01:23:03+00:00

Be careful bro she may be lying about her birthday to get laid.

Personally I would never go with a girl who says she's 18 on a dating app. She could very easily be 16 or 17 and lying to use the app. It happens all the time.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-09-16T20:05:43+00:00

Wondering myself how to respond to this. Maybe just an "ok"

SerialATA_Killer · 2019-09-16T23:28:12+00:00

Comfort tests don't come around until you're in a relationship. She's worried you'll leave her ass, so she'll put out feelers for comfort.

I heard a general rule for tests:

Girl: "you...." = shit test

Girl: "I/we... (when in a relationship)" = comfort test

*Disclaimer: I'm a purple pill lad

SolidLiquidGasPlasma · 2019-09-16T23:43:35+00:00

She wants you to ask for her snap instead

Foolishoe · 2019-09-17T00:15:38+00:00

Ask her what she's comfortable sharing if not her number. Give her your number, consider this a step away from a soft next.

I'd hard next but that depends highly upon your options at the moment. If she's one of a few soft next and try again later. If she's one of a dozen ice her and never look back, it's a lesson for her and a statement by you that you don't have time for that crap and she shouldn't be backing out like that.

DankZelda · 2019-09-17T00:33:48+00:00

Looks like you're goung to be swimming in pussy tonight I'd say

Schhwing · 2019-09-17T00:58:50+00:00

She’s butthurt cos she’s been chasing but you’ve been hard to get. She’s just playing a little validation game.

If you’d said “Hey I’ve been real busy lately but I’d like to meet you. We should go on a hike.” And she answered positively, you then could’ve got her number.

Otherwise just use tinder for logistics.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2019-09-17T01:26:40+00:00

Either it’s a fake account or she’s insane. Congratulations.

throwing8smokes · 2019-09-16T22:32:27+00:00

LOL "I turn 18 tomorrow" yeah right. gtfo this girl is underage.

send_it_for_the_boys · 2019-09-17T00:11:21+00:00

And I usually just tell them to fill in the blanks ()-(-____). Its different then what other guys say, to the point, and it either works for me or they don’t reply.

Title	Comfort test or low interest
Author	semperfresh
Upvotes	23
Comments	39
Date	September 16, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d558ba/comfort_test_or_low_interest/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/comfort-test-or-low-interest.253535 https://theredarchive.com/post/253535

Comments