Dealing with public humiliation?

Jjjameson14 · 2019-04-30T00:52:34+00:00

NEVER APOLOGIZE for your comments.

Use it as motivation to lose the extra weight.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-04-30T01:23:45+00:00

A. Nobody gives a shit about this as much as you do. Act normal. Everyone else will.

B. YOU control how YOU feel.

C. Delete FaceBorg. Or at least STFU on it.

Casd12 · 2019-04-30T04:02:56+00:00

Personally I would set the news article as my profile pic for my social medias

walawalawa · 2019-04-30T00:32:59+00:00

I feel embarrassed ashamed and it's bringing out all the exs i had out the wood work and they are slandering me on the news article.

This is a struggle for men raised in a feminist, shaming culture. You're taught that if you don't conform you're condemned to your status for life. This is FLAWED co-dependent thinking that bases your whole self-worth on what others think of you.

This requires a mindset shift that comes with adopting the Red Pill. Shrug it off. This is a story about self-improvement. In your mind you need to find a way to positively reframe this as "That WAS me...but we're not condemned to stay in one place all our lives..."

There are many stories in the feminist world about women and their self-image with positive re-enforcement around the idea that you're a 44 year old menopausal woman and you're still beautiful. Sadly in this feminist culture there isn't the same positive masculine change-management narrative.

All I can tell you is I've been in a similar situation---not over weight but over being a loser with girls, being perceived or put down as lazy, etc etc. This is all nonsense and the criticism comes from a place of hostility and fear that I'm improving while my critics are not. Change takes effort own that.

Laugh it off...You're working on the external changes now start working on your inner game...be the man you're evolving into physically.

ItzAdrestia · 2019-04-30T00:11:32+00:00

Why do you care? Fuck them. Keep improving and become better who gives a fuck about exs lmao. Only embarassing thing is them dating a overweight dude.

blewbluw · 2019-04-30T00:07:42+00:00

News article about your fat pictures?

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2019-04-30T00:19:52+00:00

Leave your small ass town that had nothing going for it except writing articles about a fat citizen...what was the title of the article...please tell.

Omesaa · 2019-04-30T01:02:21+00:00

Why do you want a red pill way out when youve already acted like a bitch and argued on facebook?

How do you even have time to argue on FACEBOOK???

If you were "red pilled" you wouldve never gotten in this situation. Arguing on facebook cmon lmao...

But what i would do is suck it up and give it some time. People will forget about it in a few weeks or something.

Greaterbird · 2019-04-30T05:01:44+00:00

Don't bother responding to the comments..

If you see people in person you'll actually probably get a lot of complements on the weight loss. You'd say something like "yeah, I was in pretty bad health back then so I've been making some changes". Everyone loves a success story.

Kilgore-Trout36 · 2019-04-30T12:17:58+00:00

Just convince yourself it’s “fake news”

thesatellite23 · 2019-04-30T18:57:54+00:00

That photo depicts you from the past. It doesn't affect anything in the grand scheme. You have grown since then. Improved yourself. Lost weight. You are more knowledgeable, experienced, and mature at this exact moment that you were during any other point of your life.

Laugh it off and continue working toward your mission.

eboyster · 2019-04-30T06:06:55+00:00

Post the article and we will get your back!

Title	Dealing with public humiliation?
Author	foraesthetics
Upvotes	6
Comments	29
Date	April 29, 2019 11:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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