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Does refusing to date women who have slept with black men make you racist?

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April 26, 2015
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Title Does refusing to date women who have slept with black men make you racist?
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Upvotes 1
Comments 67
Date April 26, 2015 8:56 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]V_Virtus 23 points24 points25 points 11 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link

Pretty racist but it's a personal choice.

Just don't go advertising it to everyone.

Think as you wish but act as others do.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This.

We aren't the only community to adopt the phrase, "the red pill." It has also been used denote the acceptance of racial differences.

I suggest OP keeps it to himself.

[–]Humankeg1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty much this. If only because they have been with a black person that is pretty fucking deplorable on your part, but still your choice.

If its because you think women that sleep with black men are typically a certain type, then I can understand that as not being racist (similar to how women that are attracted to mostly models are a certain type).

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[–]feminazis_stalk_me11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can express your thoughts, people should be able to call you a racist. Think as you wish but act as the others do.

[–]V_Virtus 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

It's racist, that's why you get labeled as a racist.

The saying is from the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene.

If you're going to act a certain way because you hold unpopular beliefs then don't advertise it. It's the same reason why you don't tell anyone about TRP in real life. It can come back to haunt you.

[–]rokr12920 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

48 laws of power

are they all short sayings like that?

[–]V_Virtus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Short rules then he goes into more depth with historical examples of it in action. If you google you can find a pdf with a summary of each rule.

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[–]V_Virtus 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

The guys jacked, succesful, and good looking. She sleeps with him.

If the guys white it's fine. If he's black it's not?

That's discriminatory based on skin color alone.

If you were to next based on the other guy being a low SMV deadbeat or her going through some odd phase where she is actively choosing to sleep with black guys for the shock factor. Then that's more understandable and you're nexting for different reasons.

[–]1cray-cray-cray1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If the guys white it's fine. If he's black it's not?

That's discriminatory based on skin color alone.

I'll just drop this here... http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5807a6.htm?s_cid=mm5807a6_e

If I weren't black, that might concern me a little more. It might even encourage me to date white girls. Would that make me racist?

Your 48 laws thing, I agree with. But to think that race populations are all exactly the same is nearly the same as the feminist nonsense that men and women are the same.

[–]aguy010 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think a guy would have a problem with a successful black guy doing fucking a white girl, it's the gangbanging black dudes that tend to be the issue. If a girl is into that life she's a lost cause for a relationship.

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[–]RealRational-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Are you retarded? If the reason for the choice is race that is the very definition of racist.

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[–]RealRational0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really, I'm pretty sure he's just a troll. No one is that dense.

[–]Mattpilf-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

You are not having a preference, you are out right refusing to date anyone who has engaged in interracial relations. The only people you deem good enough are the ones who refuse to engage in interracial relations. I mean, if I said I could never be friends with someone who has a black friend, that would be SUPER racist. Everyone has their preference for friends, but that doesn't mean this ultimatum is non racist.

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[–]teeay 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What's the reason for your "preference"?

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]teeay1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not in this case, because you're just trolling. But in general, yes, intention is important.

[–]Mattpilf0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Preference is saying I enjoy the high cheekbones in Asians over African Americans in general of your partner. it's another thing to refuse flat out just because they happen to also like high cheekbones and have dated an Asian.

I guess you can have a "prefrence" for all white coworkers and expect all coworkers to only have white friends and family. I don't think it's called a presence if you refuse to work with anyone who has a black friend. That's just racist.

[–]Polishrifle1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How? You're using color of one's skin to make your decision. It's not how many guys she's slept with that's the problem, it's their race.

That's the definition of racism: Passing judgement based on the color of one's skin.

[–]kmyp 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not sure this is a good definition of racism. For example, I sleep exclusively with Asian women. Not because I'm a racist and think all other women are below me in some way, but because I simply don't find them attractive. Technically speaking, I'm passing judgement based on skin, culture, hair, stereotypes, etc. but by no means am I a racist for preferring one race of woman over another.

With that said, not sleeping with someone solely because they have slept with a member of another race... yep. That's racism. OP's "rule" implies that there's something wrong with sleeping with black people.

[–]Polishrifle0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The synonym for judgement is discrimination, so if you discriminate someone based on their race, you are racist. It has nothing to do with inferiority. Saying all Asian's are good at math is a racist stereotype, even if the connotation could be deemed positive.

[–]3alreadyredschool1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This depends on your thoughts.

[–]AlphaAccountant1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I don't like that saying. I should be able to express my thoughts without being labeled racist.

Emphasis mine. Stop living in a fantasy world where people say what they mean.

Think as you wish but act as others do.

Is one of the 48 rules of power. You seem to like rules. I suggest you read them.

Onto the actual subject. You know how many fucks I give about the sexual history of my plates? None. As long as she's clean (STD free) and wants me to fuck her, I'm gonna fuck her.

If you want to elaborate on your reasons, I'm intrigued.

[–]mindfucks 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

... You know that 48% of black women have Herpes and that condoms don't necessarily protect you from getting them, right?

[–]AlphaAccountant0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Did you know that 100% of people are going to die? (Didn't even have to look up a source on that one)!

Did you know that as late as the 1975, nursing textbooks did not include herpes as it was considered no worse than a common cold. After the development of acyclovir in the 1970s, the drug company Burroughs Wellcome launched an extensive marketing campaign that publicized the illness, including creating victim's support groups.. Let me make this clear: a drug company found a "treatment" (quotations because it doesn't actually heal you, just reduces symptoms) and launched a successful marketing campaign which changed the public's perception from

darn you have cold sores on your dick/pussy

to

omg you have a disease you sick motherfucker

While on the subject of STDs, let's talk about HPV: If a college woman has at least one different partner per year for four years, the probability that she will leave college with an HPV infection is greater than 85%. Most estimates (estimates, cause it's so common that no one gives a shit about studying it) put the chance of catching it at or above 90% during your lifetime, if you are sexually active. Oh and condom's don't necessarily protect your from getting them, right? Cause penetration isn't necessary.

Have fun getting your dick sucked with a condom on it. If your scared of fucking someone because of their sexual past, your right hand is looking more and more appealing.

Far from advocating risky sex, there is always going to be risks involved. Much like driving a car or crossing a street. But you can mitigate those risks by using your judgment, aka not driving while impaired (alcohol, drugs or sleep deprivation) or looking both ways before crossing. Just met a skank in some shitty bar? Wrap that shit up. Had a few dates with a friends friends who isn't crazy and says she's clean? Have fun bro.

[–]LittleHelperRobot0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Non-mobile:

  • as late as the 1975, nursing textbooks did not include herpes as it was considered no worse than a common cold. After the development of acyclovir in the 1970s, the drug company Burroughs Wellcome launched an extensive marketing campaign that publicized the illness, including creating victim's support groups.
  • If a college woman has at least one different partner per year for four years, the probability that she will leave college with an HPV infection is greater than 85%.

That's why I'm here, I don't judge you. PM /u/xl0 if I'm causing any trouble. WUT?

[–]mindfucks 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cool, enjoy your incurable diseases, as well as your PC thinking that everyone is equal, kumbaya.

[–]SenorBananaHammock1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are able to... If your thoughts aren't racist.

[–]mindfucks 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Shoula woulda coulda.

Blacks have an average 85 IQ and I personally believe they will never successfully integrate well into a modern society.

http://psychology.uwo.ca/faculty/rushtonpdfs/PPPL1.pdf

http://www.aei.org/publication/bell-curve-20-years-later-qa-charles-murray/

It is not a PC topic, people hate admitting that some groups might not have the same mental abilities as others, but reality be racist.

However, I know if I run around saying that out loud, I'd be fired from my cushy six-figure job. So I keep my mouth shut, and so should you.

[–]markfeel5 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Is it racist? Pretty much. But why should you care if you're 'racist'? Just keep it to yourself and live the way you want to. I basically agree with you. It's become a buzzword that people throw around to discredit and slander anyone who doesn't treat multiculturalism like a fucking religion.

[–]krustytheclown22 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

Can you explain why you wouldn't care if her previous BF or hookup was white?

you are going to sound racist, just accept it and move on. Don't try and argue with people here.

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[–]DarkisKnight7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

WTf? Where are you getting this information?

[–]RP_Student2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

Come on man. We all know that's not the reason.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RP_Student2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I just hope you have a reason better than that bullshit. So what if the girl who dates black men clearly isnt a SJW or feminist? Would you date her then?

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[–]RP_Student2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Nonsense and you know it. YOu might say most conservative, white girls wouldn't sleep with a black guy and many liberal girls might make a point to sleep with black guys. But there are plenty of girls who couldn't give a fark about politics in any way (the majority in my experience) who still sleep with black guys.

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[–]RP_Student1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Right. "No true scotsman."

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]RP_Student1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I looked at your post history. Please die.

[–]krustytheclown20 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

ok

[–]ifitaint 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is racist. Own how you feel. Don't try to wiggle out of it because you don't want to be associated as a racist.

[–]prodigy2throw2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Kinda weird how your only posts are this question and two gifs of girls choking on large black dicks...

Seems like you have strange self-image issues you should probably deal with

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]prodigy2throw1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You obv have a microphallus

[–]Poldonis3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He is a troll guys, check his history...

[–]ConfidenceMatters1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Me and many guys I know that a girl is less than useless if she has slept with a gay guy.

Gay guys are extremely slutty whores who are proudly promiscuous so any girl who has had sex with one, even with protection, is by default a nuclear vagina.

[–]Otah_Machi-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Troll.

[–]RichieFinn0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would understand if you branded it as the type of girls who would enjoy flings with bigger dicks, but you branded it as "black guys" ...thats why its ignorantly racist, learn the difference OP.

[–]cock_pussy_up0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is racist, but you can refuse to date whoever you want for whatever reasons you choose.

[–]AyYoMofo0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No need to label yourself racist. Are Hasidic Jewish men racist because they would never date a black or Asian etc? Same with any strict religion. Do you need a church or ancient script to support your preference?

It's very popular to label someone a racist or a homophobe these days. Regardless it's your preference, your body, your life, do what you want and fuck the people trying to shame you or demonize you. You're not dis respecting anyone, simply choosing who you associate with.

[–]OverdoseOfRedPill0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

In my experience, white girls who prefer black guys often have a certain look. They are slightly fat or not-slim, have round faces, and are usually down for anything in bed. Have a high sex drive and often a high n-count. Its not racist if you dislike the look and vibe.

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[–]OverdoseOfRedPill4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There might be a biological reason for this. Women are known to carry DNA of their previous sex partners.

[–]stillnoturday0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This guy is a troll look at his post history. Why do you people keep falling for these morons.

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[–]stillnoturday0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The two other posts youve made are from /r/bbcsluts

either troll or we found the reason why you think this way that being you have a small dick and are feeling inadequate.

[–]SavingSelf 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First class trolling, well done.

[–]LandShark805-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

These changed my perspective forever.

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[–]LandShark8050 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can find someone attractive and want to do the big bopper with them, then it is only fair that the opposite holds true. As black woman hotties go, she is my #1.

I would suggest instead of race that one views the cultural group with it. I'm far better with a man with education/intelligence over arrogance than a thug/trash/slackabout being the last.

Maybe I should argue with. Kim K., is she off your lists should she have a flat tire, you save her, she wants to reward you at the immediate local Four Seasons. Is that a no?

Edit then/than dammit.

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