Getting her to suck dick/be more submissive

fratercicero · 2020-03-24T00:56:58+00:00

I would just ask her to. There’s three important things to think about though...

It’s about how you word it when you ask. A lot of girls are hesitant to blow a guy they aren’t dating because they see it as degrading or slutty. If you say “Can you suck my dick” or “Can you blow me” this will feed into those beliefs. Instead word it like “Can you go down on me”. It sounds stupid to us guys but believe me it makes a huge difference to them.
It’s about when you ask. If you’re sitting there watching tv or hanging out or anything else casual and just ask her she’ll probably say no. She isn’t sexually charged at the moment. Remember women think with their emotions. If they don’t FEEL like they are a sexual being then in their mind they won’t be good at doing sexual acts. Instead, ask for it while you are doing foreplay to sex. Specifically right after you’ve fingered her. She’ll not only be very sexually turned on, but she’ll feel obligated to return the pleasure you just gave her.
It’s ultimately about the sexual pleasure SHE GETS from it. While she is blowing you really exaggerate how much you are liking it. Tell her it feels good with words/sounds. I advise that the first time you get it from her cut it short. Let her blow you for like a minute or two. While she’s going down on you act like you are so turned on from it that you pull her head off, physically flip her on her back, and give her the pounding of a lifetime. This is very important. If you fuck her really well after she will associate giving you head with getting great sex after it. There will now be something in it for her when she blows you.

This is the exact formula I use with every girl that is hesitant to blow me. Let it be known that some girls just flat out do not like giving head. That’s fine. Continue to bang bet and get 3 more plates that do. Good luck bud

nexther · 2020-03-24T01:57:20+00:00

Start with small commands. “Pass me that.” “Don’t say that.” “Twirl for me.” “Show me your pretty smile.” then work up to “knees.” “I want you to suck me.”

Although every girl i’ve ever fucked has always just gone for sucking my dick without command, even the “virgins.”

bearbludaddy · 2020-03-24T00:19:50+00:00

Hand on her head, downward pressure.

Do you want to send her an evite or something?

She can't be submissive unless you act dominant. Take her.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-03-24T06:26:08+00:00

Introduce light bondage into the bedroom...now if only someone had written a guide for this that was on the sidebar....

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-24T06:28:30+00:00

next time you fuck her missionary, put your fingers in her mouth (1-2, not yer whole paw) and talk dirty to her

"that feels so good.... i want to watch you suck my cock just like this" etc. get her visualizing it. get her knowing it gets you off.

at that point, next time you're both naked, either she wants to please you (more than she dislikes sucking dick) or she doesn't.

i'm personally not a fan of the push-down-head-towards-cock technique, i mean, if she was blind and medically-retarded, ok, but if not, "make it her idea" and she'll own it.

RacistMuffin · 2020-03-24T03:39:07+00:00

I've dealt with a similar issue with one of my long-term plates. And by long-term, I mean we've been seeing each other for around 3 months.

To give some context, she's not relatively that submissve and therefore contains a decent amount of alpha traits(she's the alpha female in a lot of her female friend groups). She would typically try to lead and suggest certain things, make sure you don't allow her to lead in any situation. She is not submissive because her interest level would not be high enough to keep her around as well. If you dread game her, her interest level will raise as well and therefore she might suck your dick to keep you interested. Make it clear that you like getting your dick sucked, and therefore she would reward you based on her attraction level towards you.

Also a keynote, a lot of these girls that don't suck dick has had a traumatized experience with it. It seems beta, but openly display your discomfort and she will open up to you on why she doesn't do it.

WayThrownAway3 · 2020-03-24T08:14:44+00:00

Look at her In the eyes, put on your big daddy voice, and tell her "come here babe, I want you to suck this dick". If she doesn't she's really hit that attracted to you. For fuck sake make sure your dick is clean, and smells good, nothing turns a bitch off than dick cheese and the smell of a Thai fish market in the summer.

cfbovernfl · 2020-03-24T03:28:38+00:00

Hm that's weird, all but like 2 of the girls I've ever hooked up with have given me head without me even initiating.

jaznex · 2020-03-24T08:32:10+00:00

every second weekend for 6 weekends and you fucked her on second date. basically you fucked her 2 times?

zboo1h · 2020-03-24T19:03:06+00:00

If you jam it in her face and she doesn't just gargle on it then you need a new one.

A new girl, I mean. Throw this one away, it isn't working right.

Haytch1234 · 2020-03-24T21:53:59+00:00

You should guide her head to your cock. If she doesnt want it, she wont do it.

Then your problem becomes if she decides to swallow

Huntbutt · 2020-03-25T05:17:59+00:00

shaves your pubes if you havent lol

so many girls wouldn't suck me off when i had a bush

but now that i keep it tight i get bjs whenever i sleep with a chick

QSDT · 2020-03-25T05:38:24+00:00

Have her on her back while fingering her, move up to her face while still fingering you on your knees and just put your dick near enough to her face that she can suck it. If that doesn't work start smacking it on her lips.

RobbyHagan · 2020-03-24T00:24:57+00:00

Well, for starters, do you enjoy eating pussy? If you do, then you can use that. She'll definitely reciprocate. If you don't enjoy eating pussy, then don't do it because it'll be dishonest and set a precedent that you'll do it from time to time.

If you don't want to eat her pussy, then another way you can "ease" her into being more submissive is to try being dominant with your actions and words when you're fucking her. Like grabbing her hair rough and saying "Who's pussy is this?" If she says "It's your pussy" Then say, "Yeah? Tell me you fucking love it." See how she responds to that.

If she goes along with it, then the next time after that, while you're making out, start talking shit before you hit the bedroom, "You want to get fucked?" when she says "Uh-huh" or "Yeah" then say, "Yeah? Get on your knees" If she does, then put your dick in her face and say, "show me what you can do"

ProgmusicHans · 2020-03-24T03:03:19+00:00

Just tell her to.
Her reaction: I don't do that...
You: You will, if you want to spend time with me.

Done deal. Killed her shit test.

Estebano_7 · 2020-03-24T01:23:36+00:00

When things are getting hot and you are about to have sex, look her dead in the eyes, take a deep breath and say, " *Insert name*, suck my dick".

She will most likely doing unless she doesn't respect you.

Title	Getting her to suck dick/be more submissive
Author	mrsmiley831
Upvotes	14
Comments	54
Date	March 24, 2020 12:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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