Girlfriend suddenly... improved

robotghow · 2014-12-06T08:53:42+00:00

Have you been improving yourself lately? Got new hobbies? Did she see you chatting with other girls?

gabilromariz · 2014-12-06T08:57:26+00:00

Did you change in someway that would make her more attracted to you? This happened to me a while back when my bf found trp. He started working out and dressing better and I felt it wasn't fair that only he made an effort so I started reading up on fashion (like what clothes shapes look better) and makeup and such so we could both look better.

It only made sense that if he made the effort, he more than deserved that I made an effort back too

I_Cum_Blood_666 · 2014-12-06T14:07:11+00:00

Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-12-06T16:33:36+00:00

You may not know about it, but some other girls, probably more than one have been talking about how you're sexy and/or desireable.

ss_camaro · 2014-12-06T11:33:48+00:00

I shouldn't stop trying so hard to impress you just because I got you.

You are in the BB box. Her AF either moved on or upgraded, stinging her enough to feel her game is off. Rather than give you the real reason, she decided to tell you a fairytale and stroke your ego a little. Reap the benefits while they last, but this one sounds like she is in branch-swinging modus.

BPasFuck · 2014-12-06T13:02:15+00:00

"Old Redder" and "SSCamaro" could both be right. It mainly depends on your woman, you, and whatever other details that are outside the scope of your minimal post.

Sometimes, a bitch is going to initiate the sex because she's having a pregnancy scare from her other man, and wants to fuck the shit out of you so that she can claim it's yours and you be none the wiser.

Is that the case here? Who the fuck knows?

1) Take it at face value for now-- enjoy the sex, enjoy the hotter bitch.

2) Keep your eyes open, and don't be a stupid fucking chump. You posting this suggests that your instincts are troubled. You probably have good reason to be, even if you're not consciously aware of it. Protect your fuckin' dignity. Don't allow yourself to be crushed if you find out she's trying to cuckold you. Be cold, be righteous.

3) Continue progressing as a man, and be mindful of what you would do/where you would be if it ended tomorrow when she announces she's leaving to go be with her new soulmate Chad Thundercock. If you can honestly say, "I'd be fine," then you probably don't have to worry about her leaving you for Chad Thundercock.

MojoMoley · 2014-12-06T15:27:45+00:00

Maybe she got money so she could afford those things? Do you guys ever think about that?

moderatorsAREshit · 2014-12-06T19:25:15+00:00

maybe some of the stuff you are reading sank in and you are behaving more like an alpha.

RPSigmaStigma · 2014-12-06T20:13:30+00:00

"I'd say infidelity but the interest in sex throws me off."

I'm not going to jump to conclusions, but when my (soon to be ex-) wife was cheating on me, she was a lot more interested in sex with me too. Could be Coolidge effect, a distraction technique, etc.

Again, don't want to assume. If anything, the increase in sweet words would be the thing that makes me think it might not be cheating.

For all you know, she could have just read something in Cosmo, or noticed some other chick checking you out.

Moolg86 · 2014-12-06T22:08:57+00:00

be sure to update us if anything else comes of this.

wakethfkupneo · 2014-12-06T22:40:03+00:00

When was her last period? Any chance she is ovulating now? Woman wanting sex with you, initiating even, while in the middle of ovulation is very good sign and argument against infidelity (and vice versa).

oldredder · 2014-12-06T10:36:55+00:00

not infidelity. Probably some girls or even guys told her this is an improvement & she wants to improve.

If it was infidelity she'd be less available, initiate less sex, get mad if you try to initiate it & might even accuse you of cheating.

Aerobus · 2014-12-06T15:09:10+00:00

Maybe she's genuinely improving herself and trying to make you happy.

Lol who am I kidding. OP be wary. Chances are she's up to something.

asd1100 · 2014-12-06T09:31:10+00:00

I get what she is doing. But what are you?

Sorry to burst your bubble but being happy SHE initiates sex is beyond beta, it's childish. Do you lead the relationship. Does she respect and value you or is she just looking for a baby to lock you down or because her clock is ticking. And you are to dumbfounded by easy sex to even consider she has a alternative goal in mind other than getting that sweet sweet man love.

This is not about how to get easy relationships/sex, this is about getting awesome relationships and that requires more effort(on your part) and is not limited to more sex(man tingles).

Title	Girlfriend suddenly... improved
Author	sadpill
Upvotes	12
Comments	26
Date	December 6, 2014 8:29 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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