How do I respond from her shit test (Friend who rejected me)

Anonymous-O · 2018-11-23T02:10:00+00:00

You might get to go on a date with a girl like me? My goodness! Her humility shines through, don't it? You're on the right path OP. No oneitis. Get other girls. Forget this one. Oneitis is always misleading. I could see this girl is trash from your post but you can't because you think she is the magical unicorn. You're on the right path. Keep ignoring her. Not worth your time.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-23T02:06:05+00:00

If only there was a website, and that website had a sidebar, and that sidebar had post titled "There's this one girl...."

Lostitink · 2018-11-23T02:52:40+00:00

Reply “Lol”

korkyshadow · 2018-11-23T04:11:34+00:00

say "Na i can do better".

ChadFromColumbus · 2018-11-23T04:31:42+00:00

Ignore her and block her. Never contact this cunt again. This is just blatant disrespect, you still have oneitis so you are still not quite sure how to take it. I mean you literally only knew this girl for 2-4 months and it’s been 8 months since, more than double the time you even orbited her. You should be over it by now.

I know not to invest time like that, to be clear with intentions, and to have abundance yadda yadda...

If you know, now it’s time to turn that knowledge into action. Ignore her.

KingSlapFight · 2018-11-23T13:39:42+00:00

"Apollo, you are cleared to re-enter orbit"

mleko69 · 2018-11-23T11:57:05+00:00

Don't reply at all. Don't give her a satisfaction of yourself spending even a second on thinking about (replying to) her. You once wanted her to become something more - to be a part of your life. And she refused to.

Johnnadawearsglasses · 2018-11-23T14:00:39+00:00

Reply “We’ll see.” She’ll spend hours thinking about what that means.

Jabbermouth · 2018-11-23T03:10:52+00:00

The best reply would be to either ignore it compeletely, or just say “Lol” and block her

But if you’re feeling savage and want to take this girl down a notch then I would say “Why would I want to go on a date with a girl like you” or something similar. Bitches like this need to be put in their place. So put them there.

gregoire_ · 2018-11-23T02:08:21+00:00

Tell her you’re gay

mseand · 2018-11-23T02:18:21+00:00

Tell her “i don’t think I would like to get along with a girl like you” instant value added on your side

ComplexProjection · 2018-11-23T09:33:48+00:00

Lot of people here are in the anger phase, so their answer are all about getting revenge. The fact is that you weren't attractive enough for her at the time. Now you have increased your SMV, and she's interested. That's how the game works, that why we increase our SMV. Don't feel insulted by that fact, she's playing a game we here are all learning to play.

If you can plate her, do it. If you think the risk to fall back in your oneitis is too high, block her.

The point is it doesn't matter. There are lot of girls like her. Keep improving yourself.

ainihon · 2018-11-23T07:27:38+00:00

You can do it OP, oneitis sucks only if you let it get to you

spartan_samurai · 2018-11-23T10:44:11+00:00

Reply 'life is great', don't ask any question from her and ghost.

No response will show that you are still butt-hurt, she knows you had feelings for her and rejected you so you will always be beta for her. Any more communication with her will boost her ego.

m3ch1n4x · 2018-11-23T15:05:00+00:00

"you'd be so lucky :P"

you're the prize in this exchange, my dude. keep it fun and light

Neil1398 · 2018-11-23T16:39:54+00:00

Respond something nonchalant like you have 50 girls you can talk to and let her pursue you. Take your time responding.

andrabip · 2018-11-23T16:57:16+00:00

“Get in line, honey!”

themoor · 2018-11-23T21:15:08+00:00

Here's some way to reply:

Do not reply (your strongest move)
Like others have said here, "lol" if you must reply.
"I am...but not you"
[shakes magic 8 ball]: "not likely"
"Who is this?"
[rolling eyes]

qoulop09 · 2018-11-23T07:15:35+00:00

Dont reply and say lol. What are people children here? Here's the thing bro, all you gotta say is hey, good to hear from you. Let's get together sometime, when are you free? If she accepts, you are good to go. If she doesnt you keep doing you bro

Title	How do I respond from her shit test (Friend who rejected me)
Author	sorryforgrief
Upvotes	5
Comments	27
Date	November 23, 2018 2:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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