How to manage craving other girls in an LTR?

Odd-Buffalo-9678 · 2021-06-22T11:43:34+00:00

"men cheat to save relationships, women cheat to end them"

1122113344 · 2021-06-22T08:37:52+00:00

I’m sorry I don’t have a better answer but I just fucked a bunch of girls until I was kinda jaded about new pussy then I got in a LTR.

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2021-06-22T12:24:28+00:00

I've fucked a whole lotta pussy in my current LTR of 2years. She knows what's up she just don't wanna see shit.

I've been honest the very first day : I'm polygamous. Take it or leave it !

And like one guy told you here : If she's attracted enough she will accept the fact you fuck bitches and return to bed beside her.

The important thing is "to who are you giving love and commitment". Use this argument wisely ;)

DS_1900 · 2021-06-22T12:01:37+00:00

Dump the LTR and not get back into one until you no longer crave new pussy

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2021-06-23T14:38:26+00:00

Fuck one on the sly and see what you want to do. If you want to do it again then do it if you don’t then don’t.

That feeling will never go away. Being a man is about accepting what you cannot change. You can’t change the way your body is designed to feel when you see an attractive piece of azz.

lolomotif12 · 2021-06-23T17:05:00+00:00

How old are you and are you looking to have kids within the next year or so?

If you're under 30 or not looking to have kids then stay single and spin plates. If you want go have your cake and eat it then spin some drama free plates on the side to get rid of cravings but be prepared to lose your LTR if she finds out.

Me personally, I got tired of spinning plates and wanted something a bit more substantial so I could just slow it down a bit. But every time the LTR gives me drama and I soft next her I go fuck another girl.

Aggravating_Ad_3652 · 2021-09-06T15:03:38+00:00

Here’s some real advice from a married man:

It’s something you have to deal with. Your girl probably feels that way too sometimes. Not as much as you but still. Just like how you hate going to work every day. Still gotta do it. The pros outweigh the cons (they do for me at least).

You should stop watching porn if you are because that makes you sexualize every woman.

Don’t do the open relationship thing. That degenerate shit doesn’t work. Never has never will.

Take your sexual frustrations out on your girl, as in do to her what you would do to the girl you saw at Target or whatever. Think of her while you are doing it. Afterwards you’ll never think about target girl again.

If all else fails, and years (like 10 years) go by and your still miserable, make arrangements to fuck some girl you will never see again. You’ll probably feel like shit afterwards but sometimes that’s what you gotta do.

fourwindsgold · 2021-06-22T06:50:14+00:00

If your gf is attracted enough to you she will let you fuck other girls just to keep you happy. Or do threesomes. Theres no rule of life saying you have to live like everyone else

Megalochodeon · 2021-08-15T00:37:04+00:00

Bruv cheating in a relationship is dumb. If you don't wanna bang ur ltr break up. If you're not sure, break up. You'll soon find out how you really felt. Have abundance and don't be afraid to pull the plug if you've thought it through. If you're single you can bang the earth

thelastjeka · 2021-07-26T22:27:48+00:00

This comment section is fucking gross. Wow.

Maximum-Treee · 2021-08-04T06:14:47+00:00

This comment sect is so fucking retarded, I mean Holy shit... These people are all losers, please don't listen to their advice.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-06-22T20:26:16+00:00

I just fuck prostitutes. My wife knows but we have a don't ask/don't tell policy. Keep it professional and discreet.

Bungeeeeee · 2021-06-25T18:22:32+00:00

You will always crave new pussy. You need something else to do and concentrate on your family. If you don't plan on having kids with her then I have no advice and don't know why you'd be in an ltr in the first place.

VigilantCMDR · 2021-06-27T09:23:20+00:00

try changing things in the bedroom a bit. if shes been an ltr for over a year she will be way more open minded to things like bdsm+

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2021-06-23T10:10:42+00:00

Just go to a swingers club if you want new chicks, plural.

And there's no emotional investment on your half, so you're actions won't cause huge drama down the road.

SiteOtherwise5717 · 2021-08-30T22:30:29+00:00

You shoul read about "The way of the superior man", David deida knows more about how to decide in wanting more women.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-06-23T01:31:44+00:00

Have an OLTR (O=Open).

TrpKid2 · 2021-06-23T18:34:25+00:00

OLRT my dude

Punish3r_Ow · 2021-08-25T20:12:12+00:00

We are designed to be with multiple chicks so go and do your thing king , it's not cheating

approachangst · 2021-08-29T03:18:24+00:00

Just jerk it to porn. After you nut, the feeling will go away.

phil_stein · 2021-11-27T14:26:11+00:00

Dude, this is the cost of having a cock. You suck it up. Men's burden is we wanna fuck, Women's burden is they are emotional wrecks.

IntelligenceLtd · 2021-11-27T18:10:16+00:00

threesomes bro

Title	How to manage craving other girls in an LTR?
Author	fashionably0late
Upvotes	64
Comments	97
Date	June 22, 2021 5:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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