Hey guys, I’ve been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now. Had sex with her about 5-6 times already. Lately, it’s been even better since she’s willing to do other things.

We’re both 26 but the issue I’m facing are listed below:

  1. She has higher n count. I know I should never trust a girls words but it’s upwards of 10.

  2. I want her to get STD tested. I’m planning to go with her to a clinic next week. I know... we already had sex but I used a condom every time although she did try to have sex without condom once. However she has an IUD but still... I wouldn’t fall for that.

  3. We’re going to sleep together and go on a small vacation of sorts next weekend. Just us and we’re sharing a room together.

  4. She has much higher n count than me but I believe I definitely have higher smv.

  5. Other than the n count and the anxiety over stds, she’s pretty good so far. Usual emotional girl crap but other than that she cooks, cleans, has her own place, works, and has goals.

Thoughts? How should I proceed?