I can't make her orgasm

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-01-28T09:20:13+00:00

If she can't even make herself cum through masturbation then it will be a tough one. Most likely something psychological on her side

Kmac0505 · 2021-01-28T09:46:59+00:00

Is she on SSRI’s (anti depressants) if so, a known side effect is this.

GayLubeOil · 2021-01-28T20:51:00+00:00

Masters, the sex researcher, recently mentioned that quite a few women have been losing their ability to have an orgasm after being on the pill for 18 months or longer, and that they are also losing their interest in sex, or their ability to be aroused easily. Since this doesn't happen to everyone, and takes a fairly long time to develop. We can probably understand it best by considering other effects of the pill that develop slowly. It's well known that taking estrogen can cause the blood to clot too easily. Other effects include anemia, low blood sugar, and slow functioning of the liver. Some people will say that the pill inhibits estrogen production, and that the loss of sex interest means that these women need more estrogen. However, the other effects produced by the pill are pretty clearly the result of an excess of estrogen, at least in relation to other hormones. And I think it might be dangerous to increase the dosage of estrogen hoping to restore normal sexual function. Normally, the liver treats estrogen like a poison, removing it immediately from the body. If the liver gets sluggish from malnutrition or too much estrogen (or other damage), it can allow the hormone to build up to very high levels. Since estrogen is metabolically antagonistic to progesterone and testosterone, i think the pill might decrease libido by coun-teracting these other hormones. They raise the energy charge of cells, and contribute to a sense of well-being. Testosterone stimulates sexual desire in both sexes. The energy charge of cells can govern nerve reflexes, and so I think it is reasonable to suppose that the quality of sexual arousal and orgasm could be influenced by the relative balance of estrogen and progesterone or testosterone. An I.U.D. (intra-uterine contraceptive device) is known to be "luteolytic", meaning it suppresses progesterone formation and leads to a relative excess of estrogen. This suggests that I.U.D.s might also eventually make it hard to have orgasms. Copper seems to be synergic with estrogen, and could have a similar effect — could this have something to do with the de-emphasis of sex among some vegetarians who eat lots of copper-rich soy beans? Copper I.U.D's would seem the most likely kind to interfere with sexual satisfaction. My impression (from women I have known) is that excessive estrogen will first produce little orgasms, with a need to have many in succession. The low blood sugar resulting from high estrogen can cause depression, irritability and sleep problems. When a lower ratio of estrogen to the other hormones exists, i think the pattern is more likely to be one large, intense orgasm followed by sleep, with the next arousal not coming for about 1 and one half hours. If a person (especially, though not necessarily, a woman) has unsatisfying orgasms, or no orgasms at all, i think it would be advisable to eliminate the possible causes of a hormone imbalance (including high copper intake), and also to help the liver function as effectively as possible by getting good nutrition.. High protein, all the B vitamins, vitamins A,C, and E, and zinc and magnesium are especially important. Vitamin E does several things biochemically which are exactly the opposite of what estrogen does, so it has been called the "anti-estrogenic vitamin."

-Ray Pete

Afrop1 · 2021-01-28T09:55:19+00:00

Just my 2 Cents but what works for me on 90 % of woman I had Sex with:

- Create a nice envoirement clean up your place light a nice smelling candle etc. (woman love little shit like this)

- After a little bit of kissing tell her in a dominant way to lay down.

- Grab some oil and start giving her a massage not focussing at sex at all. Just try to give her a good massage for about 20 min. Get a blind fold and put it over her head.

- start focussing on her legs and inner thighs (tease her a little with rubbing around her vagina)

- Once she is dripping wet you will know

- tell her to turn around on her back

- keep teasing her with rubbing around her vagina

- There will come a point when she is desperate that you penetrate her. You can decide if you want to please her oral for a while or penetrate her with your fingers.

- Have Sex with her for a while and tell her to turn around on her belly again. Tie her Hands together with Handcuffs or what ever yo have.

- now she is already totally into it. Turn her around on her Back again. Use the sex toy womaizer (If you don't have it buy it!!!!) and lay it on her clit, while penetrating her with your dick

-By now she will have a Orgasm to 99%

The intensity of Orgasm she will have depends on how mentally stimulated you have her. If she is crazy after you she will bust like never before. If You are slacking and are not passing her shit tests etc. It will be very hard to get her to a Orgasm.

second-last-mohican · 2021-01-28T08:58:22+00:00

Get a satisfyer pro, also some girls take a little longer but usually if a girl says that i kinda make it a mission to make her cum.

Fwb was kinda hard to make cum "temperamental clit" is how she called it.. i was only the second guy to make her cum and now can play her like a damn fiddle.. gave her 5 in a row and she could literally not walk hahah.

myunclessaltytaint · 2021-01-28T14:17:29+00:00

A good amount of women are uncomfortable in their bodies and it's not you it's THEM. It sounds like you're passionate and you care so it's probably not you man. It has to do with past trauma, not being able to relax, etc. In reference to pokemon, you can catch em all, but you can't cum them all.

wheremyballsgo · 2021-01-28T14:54:39+00:00

There was another book I read years ago but can't find now. It was about a divorced man who started having phone sex with married women who couldn't orgasm with their husbands. Eventually he started meeting women who couldn't cum and detailed how he was able to make them squirt and shit. Goes into details about the usual gspot, clitoral orgams and then some deep spot up in there by the cervix that can make them cum too. He'd take control of the girl and command her to cum. Pretty much sgm on expert mode.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-01-28T14:51:30+00:00

You gotta stimulate these bitches' minds and there bodies at the same time, really ravish them with everything you have. When you are stimulating her spots, her mind, and she observes that SHE IS GIVING YOU "THE BEST PLEASURE OF YOUR LIFE"...she will explode.

in THIS particular order:

1) look into her eyes, tell her she's beautiful, tell her how good she smells, and how good she feels as you rub on her body.

2) kiss her passionately, mainly her neck, kitty(optional), lower back, sides, face, tongue kissing.

3) squeeze, massage her breasts,WHILE stroking her missionary or pronebone. If pronebone, wrap her up(with your arms) tight, and talk in her ear while you TEAR HER ASS UP. Bonus if it's anal pronebone.

4) talk dirty to her WHILE STILL RIDING HER and stimuling her breasts. Make sure you tell her how good "it" is.

5) when she is loose, completely free, mentally "gassed up", and properly stimulated...she should start shaking, moaning, whimpering, screaming, quivering, squirting.

Ikr, sounds like some porn shit. I've used variations of this for riding chicks and fingering them, some might go cross-eyed too.

Good luck G

daddydropfeet · 2021-01-28T15:18:07+00:00

look up hank hands, some of his videos (on porn sites) are detailed in teaching this shit for "difficult" women

SpicyYeetJuice · 2021-01-28T08:17:11+00:00

“She doesn’t like foreplay at all” sounds like you picked a winner.

Don’t get down on yourself there is a certain percentage of girls who can’t at all. If you know you’re putting in the work then that’s all that matters. Focus on yourself that’s what they like anyways.

antioch94 · 2021-01-28T09:48:47+00:00

Why do you even talk about that with her? Do you ask her if you made her cum and then she says “no” and you look down or what? You shouldn’t have such conversations with her that make you look weak. You don’t need to make every girl cum. I’m not saying don’t work on your sex game but you don’t have to share that with your girl. If she enjoys it fine. No need for drama.

jjj2576 · 2021-01-28T14:21:58+00:00

Buy her a tiny pink toy to use when you are penetrating her/eating her out.

TheSpiciestSalsa · 2021-01-28T17:15:11+00:00

Ask her what made her orgasm years ago when she did and do that this isn’t rocket science bro.

thecarryone · 2021-01-28T18:12:32+00:00

You should buy some toys.

ToniaLagrone · 2021-01-28T22:27:12+00:00

All women are different. I had a girlfriend like this once. Really affected my self esteem. Some girls cum easily some don't.

chumazo · 2021-01-28T14:07:52+00:00

are you worried she will leave you because you can't make her cum? if you are that's your problem try new things man be more dominant play with her mind you should know by now what she likes in bed leak her kitty until she cums use fingers then make her lay down facing down and fuck her like you haven't had sex for a year

maubreetius · 2021-01-28T09:52:29+00:00

If you can't do it, the satisfire pro can

Title	I can't make her orgasm
Author	mrmonbant
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Date	January 28, 2021 8:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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