LTR to make a trip with ex

Mildly_Sociopathic · 2017-05-17T06:15:20+00:00

Hard next

GayLubeOil · 2017-05-17T09:41:10+00:00

Your life isn't long enough to be dealing with this bullshit tell her to fuck off and get back with her ex

Docbear64 · 2017-05-17T07:36:58+00:00

She has the best of both worlds two men who will tolerate her dating the other. One to take her on a fancy trip and then you to provide her day to day attention . She's hit the sucker lottery.

I'd suggest walking away if she cancels the trip without you saying ANYTHING to her maybe demote her to a plate but this girl is perfectly fine milking the men around her for whatever they're worth .

pffffr · 2017-05-17T09:41:55+00:00

She shouldn't even consider going. You shouldn't even consider staying with her.

cursedflame · 2017-05-17T08:40:38+00:00

Well, do you like it that she is going with her ex? Obviously not. Follow your instincts on this one. She not worth being your Gf if she goes on a trip with her ex. The guy will fuck her on that trip and you know.

You can Demote her to plate if you still wanna fuck her after that holiday.

I would just hard next this bich. Not worth the energy, and plenty of fish in the damn sea

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-05-17T13:48:35+00:00

The title of this post should be: "ex-LTR to make a trip with ex."

Of course then there would be no need for the post.

Have been in an LTR since the last couple of months.Her ex keeps calling/messaging/sending her gifts....

Why are you tolerating even this shit?

he has an idea she is fooling around with me.

WHY hasn't she expressly told him that you are a committed couple (e.g. LTR)?

Look, regardless of whatever she says being true, homeboy wants to dip his wick in her on the trip. She's either in denial about it, or doesn't care what you think, showing a lack of respect.

Bottom Line: Be like the guy in this post.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2017-05-17T11:55:58+00:00

Do you even sidebar?

P1mpyP1mp · 2017-05-17T16:18:44+00:00

Have been in an LTR since the last couple of months.Her ex keeps calling/messaging/sending her gifts , he has an idea she is fooling around with me.

An "idea," huh? So, it's not crystal clear? That means she's intentionally keeping it vague and not letting this guy know that she's fucking you. Maybe she's not.

The fact that he keeps calling/messaging/sending gifts and she's not nipping it in the bud, means she wants him and his attention. THIS is the girl you chose an LTR with? I see you have a long way to go here.

They did make plans for an international trip before they broke up. She still intends to make the trip with him and it is for a duration of 10 days.She insists that she doesn't feel the same for him and to trust her.This leaves me with a dilemma.I could

So, you're just supposed to trust her going away with a guy whose cock she used to suck, who still messages her, sends her gifts, etc.? Trust is earned, not given, and going away with your ex is no way to earn any trust.
She's also playing the "you don't trust me" game, a shaming tactic to get you to allow her to cheat without asking questions.

Walk away. No explanation.

I only don't recommend demoting to plate because this one has already started her lying, "you don't trust me" bullshit.

AdventureToRedPill · 2017-05-17T12:28:48+00:00

So what you have to do is bang her for the last time, ask for the conformation if she is decided to go to a trip. IF she decide already to go it's mean the relationship is over, she already choose to be with him. Tell her "it was nice meeting her", REMOVE ALL CONTACT. Spin plates! She'll beg to you to go back into relationship with her but you have stronger frame as men and know the law of abundance. So that being said. --- BANG,CONFERIM,LEAVE

quicklogaccount · 2017-05-17T12:56:48+00:00

Demote if you're not very invested. "We moved on too fast, your trip made me realize it, and I guess we should go back to just dating (or whatever euphemism you use)." If she questions you I heard this one yesterday from a friend, I loved it: "I just think we took the wrong turn. We should go back to the main road to look for the right one instead of betting that this one takes us to where we want to go."

nastynickdr · 2017-05-17T17:13:54+00:00

Read this:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4qfmgs/me_25_f_with_my_boyfriend_30_m_of_6_months_we/d4t933i/

See what Pete does.

Be more like Pete. Pete is the man.

TxnyMontana · 2017-05-17T20:20:42+00:00

You failed when you did nothing about her talking to her ex bf. I know, I know. There could be a 1% chance that they have a mature ex relationship, in wich they don't wanna fuck each other, there is no sexual desire at all, and they both are happy because their life continues in sepparated ways, but both are happy.

Lol, that's its just 1% IMO, not real at all. When both exes talk each other, at least one of them is still hooked with the other.

So, you failed there bro, no boundarie about that. Even if it's the 1% chance and for sure your gf and her ex dont love each other and wont fuck each other, you can still set the boundarie just because YOU want it. It's your way or the highway.

Talking to exes is a next issue, for sure. Going on a trip with one? no need to explain it.

She did nothing wrong (yet), so in your case, I'd explain here why im nexting her. But, if you show her the gun, you gotta shoot. Don't negotiate. Decide what will you do and then do it.

Do you care her that much to not next her (and hope its not oneitis) you cant talk about it, I mean you're not asking something crazy, you're asking not to go on a trip with an ex. Its the most common thing you can ask for. See what she does with you opinion. If she can't recognize that she's peeing out of the toilet, then next her.

walawalawa · 2017-05-17T11:14:43+00:00

Someone else posted a similar story to this.

Play it very cool. At some point, take her and bang her one last time---except she won't know it's the last time.

Then as she's getting ready to leave say: "Going on the trip with your ex?"

Wait for her reaction.

Simply say: "Safe trip, there's no need for us to be in touch after this. Don't contact me when you're back".

Never speak to her again.

I used these words. Girl came running back. But of course....eventually kept doing this stupid shit so I just ghosted her after banging her one last time.

But she didn't know it would be the last time. I did.

harkrank · 2017-05-17T09:15:09+00:00

Walk away completely. She's not attracted to you, there's plenty of other girls and even being alone is better than having anything to do with a girl like this.

returnofthemackX · 2017-05-17T14:55:22+00:00

Don't be a bitch, hard next

Throwawaysteve123456 · 2017-05-17T16:40:03+00:00

I would do a firm 2, or a 3. If you do 1, you're a pussy. I dont know the details of the trip (like were hotels booked before, etc.) but you could EASILY make it an indy trip if you wanted to likely (e.g agree to pay the difference in an extra hotel room, etc.).

But yea, no fucking way man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Fucking women, lol.

epicness · 2017-05-17T17:57:08+00:00

Haha, what a situation. The balls on that girl. I don't know why you wouldn't hard next.

281threethreeoh8004 · 2017-05-17T12:58:47+00:00

What are you even? You first say LTR, then you say her ex has an idea she is fooling around with me
Hard next

DiggerClam · 2017-05-17T06:40:50+00:00

3 and 4

Burlaczech · 2017-05-17T13:05:59+00:00

I am gonna be original: "my girl wont go with her ex on a trip, so make a decision".

If you are really into her, just offer another international trip for both of you. If you are not, then just let her go from your life. Depends on how much you are emotionally invested.

raisins3142 · 2017-05-17T13:08:59+00:00

Hard next

No contact

No closure

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-17T14:35:08+00:00

How long have been with this chick? How long have u known her? It sounds like u committed after a month of knowing her.

Let her go on the trip, but denote her to permanent plate status. She can never be more than that. She will definitely fuck that guy. Best case scenario: they'll get to talking, have some good time, reminisce and before u know it he will trip and accidentally fall dick first into her pussy. The fact that she's still accepting gifts from this guy tells you all u need to know.

Let her go thinking she bested you. When she comes back, don't see her for a good week under the pretext that you've been real busy. After that invite her over, fuck her real good in the ass, then go to sleep. Slowly reduce the amount of contact u have with her to the point here it's just logistics only. Approach more girls, fuck more girls. She's not your gf.

Bambam22bam · 2017-05-17T22:41:32+00:00

Walk away completely, this is bullshit.

Title	LTR to make a trip with ex
Author	JovialJoe88
Upvotes	3
Comments	33
Date	May 17, 2017 6:11 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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