Yesterday i took another hit to my confidence, i was at the club and a girl danced up my crotch, i got erect really fast and she keeps grinding me for a min or two, then i gotta go to the toilet cause I've just ejaculated in my pants and i need to wipe it off on the toilet.

Then when we later get over at my place i ejaculate while we are kissing (She didnt even touch my crotch while this was happening) so i had to go to the toilet again and wipe and swap underwear.

then i had to end it there as i lost my will of trying to get my shit to work.

i have no control over it, everytime im erect my dick begins pulsing inside a span of 3 min if im doing anything sexualy and then i cum shortly after. this also makes me kinda afraid of handjobs and getting head. everytime somebody tries i always stop it shortly after cause i dont want to cum agian

All this happend inside the span of around 2 hours

Ive been on no fap in 1 month now and ive tried desensitizing but it does not seem to work at all. i really dont know how to fix this.