So, I've noticed a trend here.

There are guys who are really loud about "not caring" about women or what they do. The response to pretty much everything is: "She is just your plate/FB. Why do you care" even tho there is an attempt just to understand the dynamics under the surface.

Now, the funny part is that when it comes to open relationship (on your terms meaning you initiate OLTR where both can fuck others), suddenly these guys start caring what the girls do (if they fuck other dudes) and start bitching about "you are a cuck" or something similar.

So what's the reasoning behind this? I think that these mindsets are in conflict. You can't have both so pick your poison and stick with it but don't cherry pick depending on the situation. Is there a TRP-principle which says sarcasticly put that "you should care if the girl, who you aren't exclusive with, fucks another dude because if you care then you are an alpha"?