Using a slut financially?

atticusfinch1973 · 2021-04-04T16:10:17+00:00

You have a sugar mommy. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Unsmurfme · 2021-04-04T20:53:08+00:00

You’re the slut, she’s using you. Women have agency too and she’s paying for nice things.

If you enjoy being used then no one loses.

serpentcharmer22 · 2021-04-04T16:43:08+00:00

Don't question it. Eventually it will stop. Just enjoy it

Musicgoon · 2021-04-04T19:17:19+00:00

It's her money, she can spend it how she wants. And you both are free to walk away whenever if you don't like it.

mehregan_zare7731 · 2021-04-04T16:33:05+00:00

No.. enjoy your time mate.

brennyflocko · 2021-04-04T17:17:31+00:00

Yeah have fun don’t be too much of a dick and don’t think of it as “using her”

PizzaDiaper · 2021-04-04T20:09:33+00:00

I once dated a girl that lived far away from me. She really wanted me to visit her, but I told her I’m afraid of flying so she sent me $1000 to fix my car so I could drive down and see her. She took me to Disneyland and we stayed at the Disneyland Hotel for a couple of nights, sushi dinners and all kinds of fun stuff. She’s a trust-fund kid, so it wasn’t like she was spending her hard earned paychecks on me.

Do it. If the roles were reversed, she would in a heartbeat.

WonderfulPipe · 2021-04-04T20:23:20+00:00

If anything in this context you're her slut lol

Jk man just enjoy it

mooodymarvin52 · 2021-04-04T17:35:12+00:00

I don’t think you need moral validation from us to do what you’ve already been doing.

Just Enjoy while it last

DoItForDalebaby · 2021-04-04T16:43:09+00:00

Yeah this is best shit ever for once the tables have turned keep going.

perijaso4 · 2021-04-04T16:48:42+00:00

you living the dream dude

BavarianAlpha97 · 2021-04-04T16:08:50+00:00

Use her

sternje · 2021-04-04T16:51:09+00:00

Quit your bragging.

dr_warlock · 2021-04-04T17:25:34+00:00

Quit being a pussy. Stop asking us for permission. Squeeze out every drop. Sell some of those gifts for cash. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Rimefang · 2021-04-04T20:20:39+00:00

They treating you well, and you're questioning why?

Pres-Bill-Clinton · 2021-04-04T19:51:42+00:00

Why is she a “major slut” for paying for a poor college kid to go on vacation with her? You are her boy toy, enjoy it. If anything you are the slut. Just sayin’.

theredsperg · 2021-04-04T18:28:22+00:00

Women use men for money.

Maybe take appreciation in the role reversal.

mrrooftops · 2021-04-04T21:53:53+00:00

You go girl.

crew6dawg0 · 2021-04-04T17:30:17+00:00

I've dated a girl who was just like this. She would pay for our "dates" such as going to a game, the drinks, that type of crap. Enjoy it while it lasts. The second you start to feel bad, think about all those men getting fucked in divorce courts and know that you're doing gods work.

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2021-04-05T04:25:54+00:00

Lol enjoy post feminist society, now some women are starting to have their own money & just have a ton of boy toys my dude but make no mistake.

You're her plate.

RelucBeam · 2021-04-04T17:46:19+00:00

Stupid question

Scout_XYZ · 2021-04-04T20:58:08+00:00

Lucky, kid. Enjoy your turn.

Zombiespire · 2021-04-04T19:40:41+00:00

We finally did it boys! We struck back against women!

salko_salkica · 2021-04-04T19:42:43+00:00

Mans taking vengeance for all the simps out there that got drained out of their money

Spirited-Possession6 · 2021-04-04T18:10:39+00:00

Man, if you don’t feel emasculated then play on player. I just couldn’t live off a chick.

bosshawg502 · 2021-04-04T17:32:34+00:00

These chicks do these things to us on the regular and you’re asking if it’s okay to do them the same way... lmao drain her for all she’s worth homie

northern_leftie · 2021-04-04T19:11:00+00:00

You own your actions she owns hers, if you do the things that you'd dislike if she did it, you're sinking to her level. Do you want to be better?

If your actions are based on others and not your own principles, you're still not leading. See what sort of man you want to be, and be it. Self respect is the best drug.

You can't get butthurt if you know you've done the right thing and you do it only for you. Be the adult in the room and who cares what the kids do?

FightForYourWay · 2021-04-04T20:42:04+00:00

Keep it going - play it cool when it slows down. Don’t get attached.

Yuri_TxM · 2021-04-05T01:03:15+00:00

In women's eyes sex is always transactional. So.

MattyAnon · 2021-04-05T23:23:11+00:00

Is it wrong to use a women like this for money?

No

69swagman · 2021-04-04T20:35:55+00:00

How old is she? Lol

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-04-04T17:05:53+00:00

i mean, if you didn't sound like such a gigantic asshole about it, I'd say yes, she probably enjoys it as much as you do, similar to guys who have sugar daddy fetishes

SS-CoCoNuT · 2021-04-04T19:20:30+00:00

now you got a beta slut lol

FleshPanda · 2021-04-04T19:29:09+00:00

Live it up. Don't get careless and knock this bitch up.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-04-04T20:08:02+00:00

Dad said there's no free lunch in life. Common tactic women use, spend money early on the guy. Its a version on the long game con. Are you ready to accept the warth after she realizes its been a double cross.

Romu_HS · 2021-04-04T20:29:00+00:00

Using anyone financially is for the weak of mind.

soltanparham · 2021-04-04T16:46:49+00:00

she's using someone else to pay for you ! then what's wrong?! if you don't use her someone else does! you better believe what we have to do is same exact what girls do to weak/bp men , nothing complicated ... it's not called "abuse" it's we have a price if they want us and they have to pay the price , and we're always the prize lol

Pezotecom · 2021-04-04T20:52:17+00:00

I don't get it. Do you have a good time around her? if you do and she also buys you shit then keep going.

But if she is buying your company, you are practically prostituting yourself, which is the lowest of lows in my book.

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-04-04T20:11:53+00:00

it's her own fault

DAOcomment2 · 2021-04-04T20:41:16+00:00

Yes it's wrong to financially exploit anyone. Doesn't matter if women exploit men like this, it's also wrong for you to exploit anyone like this. Being poor isn't an excuse. Being a real man and being good with women doesn't mean being a piece of shit human being. You're asking advice from a sad crowd of people who have failed all three of those life tests. Be better my man. You're asking because your conscience already knows the answer.

jacknifejones · 2021-04-04T20:37:13+00:00

There's no such thing as a free ride.

She pays for things, you owe her. You are in her debt.

She's your mafia boss. You are her pawn, to be used and abused at her leisure. And when she comes to collect, you will be her gimp.

Great_husky_63 · 2021-04-04T21:32:22+00:00

Perhaps she is the one using you.

trv22 · 2021-04-04T23:36:13+00:00

Just don’t be a dickhead and fuck it up. You’re living the dream buddy.

NumerousImprovements · 2021-04-04T23:37:06+00:00

If you are only seeing her because of the financial aspect, you are using her for money. Guys will complain when women do that to us men so I believe the respectable thing to do would not be to use her money. It’s pitiful as a man to not pay your own way in this world, especially if you follow any notion of becoming your best self in a red pill sense.

A girl you’re seeing getting you gifts is fine but you’ll know deep down whether what you are doing is wrong or not. It’s odd to see so many replies telling you to use her for her money yet would be angered to have a woman do the same thing to them. You do you OP but those are my thoughts.

wkndatbernardus · 2021-04-05T00:27:15+00:00

And the problem is?

2021-04-05T02:42:15+00:00

The fact that you're on reddit asking if it's right or wrong, means you're in the clear. Consider that if you weren't her sugar baby, some other guy would be, and might have no problem with using and potentially abusing this girl. Just let her spoil you until one of you decides to move on.

Gaddammitkyle · 2021-04-05T05:06:22+00:00

Women use men all the time. Use her. Revenge for the bros.

bandraboyz · 2021-04-05T09:47:38+00:00

Your dick is precious she knows it you don't. So enjoy.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-04-05T10:30:48+00:00

Where's the problem? If she's willing to do it, you should be willing to accept it.

sheismyrock1 · 2021-04-11T00:29:51+00:00

Using a slut.

Dating a female.

Pick one.

Title	Using a slut financially?
Author	yoloswagobey
Upvotes	66
Comments	53
Date	April 4, 2021 3:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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You're her plate.