Hey guys, need some advice here. 21M just became exclusive with a 19F plate a couple weeks ago. We've been hanging out and hooking up for 6 months. There have been a few red flags thus far:

  • She cheated on her ex BF with me (but broke up with him right after, sounds like he was beta)
  • She has a lot of guy friends
  • Recently, she liked a tweet that said "It's national boyfriend day but I don't know which one to tweet about"

I've been obsessing over her the past couple days, checking her twitter account and her snapchat score and really feeling like shit about myself. However, there are a lot of things that make me think that I'm just being paranoid:

  • She tweets about me a lot
  • The sex is fantastic, she cums everytime and will do whatever I want
  • She sees me as Alpha because I've shown preselection (she knows I had other plates) and kept frame despite being anxious internally
  • She texted me multiple times, almost desperate to make plans for this weekend (We have plans to hang out on Friday and Sunday)
  • She is either at school or at work most of the time during the week. She works until 9:00pm and has homework so its not like she has a lot of extra time
  • She has shown that she's often worried about not screwing up in our relationship - said that she tries really hard to not overwhelm me and doesn't want me to think she's obsessive (she will still send me 8 texts in a row anyway)
  • She's expressed remorse for the fact that she fucked me while she was still in a relationship with her ex, and that she was worried that I would think that she would do that to me.

What do you think? The red flags are there but they aren't exactly evidence of her doing anything wrong. Plus her attitude and behavior towards me is great so it's not an obvious situation where I should worry. Or am I just hamstering?