Approach anxiety tips

epimpstyle · 2025-01-01T12:40:38+00:00

Everything begins the moment you leave your house. It will be much easier to approach and talk to a stranger if you leave your house with a smile on your face and radiate well-being: listen before some jokes, listen to music, take a cold shower, do some push-ups when you are outside to increase your energy level - do whatever it takes to have a good moment and go out. If you have a friend to go out with it is easier to enter this mood while you talk with him on the street. But if you sit in front of your PC all day and then want to go out by yourself and expect to be talkative and full of energy - that is a mistake. It's not going to be like that.

Look at a boxing match, the trainer prepares the fighter to be in a fighting mode, he yells at him, slaps him, hits him on the shoulder etc etc .... in the same way you need to be "prepared" before you go out and approach a woman, otherwise that push/motivation to approach does not exist. In fact, it is in your mind but not in your body, you see an opportunity and but you can't move forward.

appolonysian · 2024-12-31T21:23:48+00:00

3 second rule is real. The longer you wait the worse the anxiety and the higher the probability you sabotage shit by “hovering.”

Dandys3107 · 2025-01-01T12:12:44+00:00

Have your opener prepared. Pay attention to your body language, control your breath, take proper posture, maintain eye contact, smile, loose your muscles. Don't push for any specific outcome, have some casual interaction when you check if girl may be interested or you should smoothly pull away. Also remember that being anxious may be a subconscious message that girl's body language communicates she is not eager to be approached. You can also always change your target.

Joy_Boy_12 · 2025-01-02T14:33:35+00:00

Be mindful about your thoughts, it will help you to filter the thoughts of the insecure inner voice inside ourselves.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-01-01T14:39:00+00:00

Learn self hypnosis and soon as the nerves happen the subconscious will relax you.

Chicagoj1563 · 2025-01-01T20:00:59+00:00

If you have approach anxiety that means you care. There is some outcome you are worried about.

Practice not caring about outcomes. If OP has been in the game 15 years, this shouldn’t be a surprise. But it’s an inner game issue.

Loud_Contract_689 · 2025-01-05T20:05:34+00:00

Approach anxiety often stems from a fear of wrongdoing, or moral fear, which is actually a good thing. A good way to remedy this is to reframe it in more moral terms. Don't go out to get laid, go out to practice genuine friendliness.

Radiant_Ad2782 · 2024-12-31T22:29:02+00:00

You are probably building up anxiety as you are approaching them, you want my advice? Say they are at the bar alone or whatever pull up next to her don't even look at her even though you have noticed her , be confident body posture ect , order the drink you want , then look at her she will look back because you paid her no attention before , if she smiles smile back give a compliment and then the rest of it is on you .

Title	Approach anxiety tips
Author	Onzalimey
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Date	December 31, 2024 9:02 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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