Approaching at the park

hunterpua · 2025-11-22T02:06:57+00:00

Can I turn directions and stop jogging and walk up and say hi?

Yes.

Just make sure your words match your actions.

So in this situation, you should be direct.

I've even done this while driving.

One time, as I was driving to the beach to meet up with some friends, I saw two girls chilling at a bus stop on a side street.

Didn't look like there was gonna be a bus for a while so I parked next to it and said, "Hey guys, I was on my way to the beach but I saw you guys and (addressing the other girl) thought your friend here was hot (turning to the one I like) so I had to come up and see if we'd get along."

They both responded positively so we talked for 2 to 3 minutes with me just focusing on asking her questions to see if she's someone who vibes with me. She was so I said, "Alright. You're cool. I'd like to take you on a date some time. What's the best way to stay in touch?"

She gave me her number, I left and continued on to the beach. We went out later in the week and it turns out I have a friend that follows her on tiktok.

It's the exact same thing when you're out running in the park. You stopping your run to approach makes it obvious why you're approaching so to avoid making it weird, just state the obvious.

Budget-Kick822 · 2025-11-21T20:47:02+00:00

Angle is important you want to approach from the front or side.

heytherefreeman · 2025-11-21T20:53:06+00:00

face them so they can see you approaching them, then say "hey, I know it's random, but you're pretty cute, and I wanted to say hi". Then go from there, depending if she is interested in further discussion or not. Easy

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-11-22T03:49:38+00:00

Here is the framework for daygame in my opinion: use social intelligence.

Learn how to make things happen while keeping everything under the "accidental" frame. If you have sex with her it was a combination of circumstances , it just happened.

If you can master that you can open anytime anywhere. I got laid from opening in a crowded train once. I got an instant date from opening in an airport while waiting for my flight. You just become a menace lol.

tonyferguson2021 · 2025-11-21T21:25:09+00:00

Look up ‘London daygame model’

SmtyWrbnJagrManJensn · 2025-11-21T21:04:31+00:00

Get a dog and bring it. Conversation starter

wolfme1997 · 2025-11-21T20:32:28+00:00

I think for cold approach, don’t approach where you regularly go and they also regularly come, because chances of it going right are very low and then you’d be embarrassed/hesitate to face them and might have to avoid going there again. Cold approaching is best where you won’t have to see them again, like street, malls, subway, etc. because if it doesn’t go right, there’s no worry of facing them again.

Title	Approaching at the park
Author	PghPat
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	November 21, 2025 8:17 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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