Article: How to create attraction

xzak · 2014-03-02T19:09:33+00:00

Tl;dr -

Body language: take up space, relaxed, eye contact.

Tonality: speak slower, deeper, avoid filter words (umm, you know, etc) have your voice under control.

Be busy:Non-neediness, have something you like to spend time on, let them miss you, know what you want as a result, be different that the men who beg for her time.

FlashGordonn · 2014-03-03T01:57:42+00:00

I don't necessarily agree with the "be a challenge" part, especially the "fake it until you make it" tactic. If you’re deliberately creating the appearance that you’re unavailable, you’re still putting the girl on a pedestal, changing your behavior solely to attract her. I think the focus should be more on living the type of fulfilling and satisfying life where unavailability is organic.

bob4job · 2014-03-02T19:52:11+00:00

Good article, but I feel like that last part needs expansion. "the time she spends with you must be fucking great for them and without doubt the best that they could have with anyone else. You must be able to be a great, unforgettable experience." I am good at all of the other things most of the time, but that last part is difficult. I like to be active and do guy things in my free time, so I don't have many overlapping activities with women. For this reason, I hate dates because I have to compromise and do something that doesnt interest me much. What are some ways I can achieve the goals described in that last paragraph?

General_Fear · 2014-03-02T19:46:09+00:00

Thanks OP

2014-03-03T04:05:08+00:00

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kalir · 2014-03-03T04:33:41+00:00

okay does anyone here think the author was wrong in stating to talk slower and use breaks between words? any guy will find out that is a terrible idea to follow blindly. girls will quickly think that there is something special about him and not in a good way.

CalvinHobb3s · 2014-03-03T05:21:19+00:00

I have the biggest problem with fidgeting. I usually have too much energy so when I'm talking to a girl I have a hard time sitting still. I've had many of them ask me if I'm okay because I seem "nervous". Has nothing to do with nervousness as much as I'd go run 7 miles with you right now if you asked. Idk. Maybe I need my thyroid checked.

bitternsalty · 2014-03-03T09:00:49+00:00

Well... im fucked.

SimplePickup5 · 2014-03-03T08:13:24+00:00

Do you really think acting in this way will get you far? These are the behaviors of attractive men. Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken.

Title	Article: How to create attraction
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Date	March 2, 2014 4:37 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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