Asking what her schedule is for the week vs a specific day. Which is better?

321sleep · 2024-12-29T20:17:31+00:00

First date = specific day. After that, it’s week by week.

yalp051 · 2024-12-29T20:12:19+00:00

I haven't done an AB test to see which is better but I always just do a specific day

appolonysian · 2024-12-29T20:28:05+00:00

Throw out two days that work for you. Space them out (W/F or M/Th) and see if she’s free. Don’t ask open-ended availability questions before you know the woman is significantly invested in you.

Other-Style1958 · 2024-12-29T19:19:44+00:00

Specific day. It makes you come across purposeful with your date intentions vs hey I'm free whenever you are

Edit: specific date then discuss other option if she says that exact day doesn't work. Her being interested sounds like that day doesn't work but this day or time does

Tiway22 · 2024-12-29T20:43:18+00:00

Before: “hey let’s meet at this bar at 7pm on wednesday”

She will say either, sorry I’m busy then (next), sure that works, see you then! Or if she can’t make it, she will say I’m busy but I can do thursday.

After, you can be a little more loose in gauging her schedule.

Guilty_Implement_658 · 2024-12-29T23:41:32+00:00

Ask her "when are you free to get together?" you should already have some days in mind. Don't shift your schedule. Don't seem always available. If you look like you have no other women as options, you will not be as attractive to her.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-12-30T00:47:53+00:00

Its best to offer a couple specific days. If is busy on those times then ask her what times would work for her.

burncushlikewood · 2024-12-30T00:59:31+00:00

? The answer is who cares man if she wants to see you she'll make time

The1WhoDares · 2024-12-30T03:55:11+00:00

I ask for week, it’s less pressure IMO and gives them the opportunity to tell u multiple days/times.

Pick 1 and execute… decision making is a big turn on for women. If she’s into u, she’ll make it easy

NatoliTian · 2024-12-30T08:17:32+00:00

You let her know what days YOU are free

Title	Asking what her schedule is for the week vs a specific day. Which is better?
Author	Key-Watercress2283
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	December 29, 2024 6:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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