If you're one of those people whose sole objective in dating is to get inside your date's pants then you're definitely mistaken ladies and gentlemen. Me being a man, my personal experience told me that women can quite literally smell desperation and so can men.

My advice, stop being overly affectionate from the get-go. Like for example, it hasn't been a few days since you started talking and there you go with all those emojis and affectionate stuff like ' I feel like hugging you right now,' or the dreaded one, 'Give me a goodnight kiss.' Nobody likes a clingy person. They'd rather go out with a person who could care less about physical contact and more about emotional contact.

So next time you're talking to that special person, tryna loosen up and act as if you've everything in this world and you're just talking to a person who spiked your curiosity. My personal experience, in the first few days just try to connect with them emotionally and then take your conversation to the next level. What'll happen is, you'll have an interesting conversation and withing a few days that coveted trophy will be all yours for the taking.