Can an alpha be truly funny?

davidjascha · 2015-05-18T05:31:54+00:00

In my opinion, 'frame' is fundamentally misunderstood. We picture it as something rigid--unshakable confidence.

To me, however--and that would permit for a self-aware and funny 'alpha guy' to exist--frame is to be profoundly rooted in the moment as opposed to having delusional self-trust.

Whose 'frame' is more likely to crumble:

He, who has an extremely big ego, completely caught up in his self image, or he, who doesn't really care about what he represents, who doesn't have any intentional identity so do speak, and just enjoys his time on this planet?

The latter is the 'alpha' you'r looking for. He can be totally hilarious, because he knows that he's just a participant in the silly game we call life.

BaronTheBear · 2015-05-18T06:33:42+00:00

Are you associating being alpha as like a cold stone leadership type of person who never breaks from being cool? I think it is very possible to be alpha and funny. Look at some of the comedians in the world. Louis CK, Russell Brand, Jerry Seinfeld to name a few. They all have don't give a fuck mentalities and are hilarious.

Zerachiell319 · 2015-05-18T13:46:41+00:00

I'm just going to add my two cents here. I believe that everything in game has a balance. If you're too confident, you come off as egotistical and narcissistic. if you're too persistent, you come off as thirsty and needy. Conversely, if you're not forward enough with your intentions you get friend-zoned and if you're not willing to put yourself out there and let your ego get bruised every once in a while you are never going to improve.

Similarly, using humor in game requires a balance. Some people are stone cold and straight-faced. These men are usually perceived as imposing and intimidating. Others, are incredibly funny and come off as attention seeking men that crave approval over everything else.

Some humor is very good in game. But too much or too little of it is bad. The best advice I could give is, imitate and practice. Comedy, like pretty much anything else, requires imitation and practice. Emulate your favorite comedians, put yourself into a fun mindset, and crack a joke or two. Above all, have a good time with it. If you're having fun, the girl will have fun too.

chiliehead · 2015-05-18T16:31:42+00:00

Don´t try too hard to be funny, but the ability to make and deliver jokes and laugh genuinly is clearly a sign of confidence.

And for the edit stuff: Edit: typos or Edit: rephrasing and you´re fine, but don´t overdo it because comments to your original post might seem of-topic.

Wky · 2015-05-19T07:37:43+00:00

You can be alpha and still be funny. I'm not "alpha" or "beta", but when you make people laugh (especially girls), that's when you get their attention and escalate.

readonlyuser · 2015-05-21T04:15:39+00:00

To answer your question, yes, alphas can be, and often are, hilarious. They are self- amusing and not qualifying themselves. In fact, most alphas have a good sense of humor.

Iloveyou-Iknow · 2015-05-18T05:41:15+00:00

wat?

you mean a joker boy, someone who seeks approval by making jokes and making people laugh?

If you are unaware of the concept and the trademark called "Cocky Comedy", I suggest some googling and book-reading. It's the most effective attraction strategy for the 10/10 women with high self esteem.

Reading on that you will learn the meaning of laughter and why we laugh and how social status and approval works.

Title	Can an alpha be truly funny?
Author	wakaflockanerd
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 18, 2015 5:22 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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