Confidence is Key

moriyam5 · 2019-02-02T17:00:10+00:00

All are about looking confident whether you actually are confident or not. I feel that if people worked on self-confidence, looking confident will come more naturally

aspiehermit · 2019-02-02T19:49:33+00:00

Don't: Be me

Do: be other person

MkRazr · 2019-02-02T17:14:08+00:00

“Poundplace” lol

Sandvicheater · 2019-02-02T18:08:37+00:00

This just doesn't apply to girls and seduction but how yo should interact with everybody in life.

CertainLiterature · 2019-02-02T17:55:10+00:00

I need lessons on how to speak slowly. The um comment hurt my heart... that’s me after every 3rd word 😔

f33 · 2019-02-02T20:37:22+00:00

Dont forget to smile

diggs747 · 2019-02-02T21:13:13+00:00

Finally something practical hits the top of this sub.

touchofcyn · 2019-02-02T22:00:38+00:00

My self confidence came when I truly loved myself for who I was and when I am in that state I set healthy boundaries focused more on the positive than than the negativity and surrounded myself with people who loved me and supported me. To be honest I struggle with self esteem from time to time and to get out of that I practice self affirmations help others in need and get support from others who have gone through the same thing. So in short if you love yourself and not ashamed of anything you do you project confidence

PolesWithGoals · 2019-02-02T21:28:24+00:00

Is there a college version

SterlingRFox · 2019-02-03T03:48:07+00:00

“Actions speak louder than words” & body language is 80% of what you are saying. With this in mind, due to social and cultural differences sometimes we get “Mixed Signals” and believe it or not that’s good news because... Well, as men we all want to appear to be confident even when we aren’t right? The key is so obvious, so easy, and so straight to the point it almost sounds cliche.

You ready? The key is: learn how to Stay (in control of your emotions) in any and all situations. This works because when you are in control of your emotions you are naturally more relaxed & being “Relaxed” looks just like “Confidence”

Sterling R. Fox

wowzacowza · 2019-02-02T19:27:34+00:00

Correlation is not causation. These traits may be indicative of confident people, but trying to mimic them to appear confident isn't a good idea. Basically, it's hard to fake confidence. If you're nervous but doing your best to seem confident by doing these, it's a lot more likely you're going to fixate on your hands and body and posture and voice to the point that you'll just end up being twitchy and neurotic.

A much better approach is to figure out how to actually be confident when speaking with people. If you're actually confident, you will naturally do all these things without thinking about it.

bitxoin · 2019-02-02T15:09:51+00:00

no its looks

PR3D4T0R3000 · 2019-02-02T16:35:37+00:00

The hands in pockets things thing is bs. You should only have them out when ur talking.unless u feel comfortable with them out in the situation. If ur forcing the body language it will give people bad vibes because you won’t be comfortable. I wish half this shit was accurate

greenlittleman · 2019-02-02T20:03:22+00:00

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Title	Confidence is Key
Author	quinnmcd
Upvotes	579
Comments	23
Date	February 2, 2019 2:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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