So I've noticed that I constantly don't attract women and even when we talk it seems like the conversation is that I get generic responses from women like I was at a doctor's office.
What can I do? If I go hard and tell them I think they are cute they will respond with "I have a boyfriend"
When it comes to online dating I couldn't be more lost. I have zero clue what women like to talk about, (I have one female friend) I usually talk about movies or something in pop culture, I'll ask them questions about themselves. I rarely talk about myself unless they ask, I don't like to brag about anything. I'm a great cook but women think of that as feminine and not something sexy, which is crazy to me because you would think eating great food would be something most women would want.
I've had 25 matches and none of them went anywhere, just a few messages then ghosting, rinse and repeat. I put a lot of effort into my pictures and it helped but only in the beginning, now I'm not getting matches and I've run out of profiles to swipe on. I'm 35 and pretty depressed about spending more years of my life alone and sexless. I've only ever had sex 3 times in my life. Sorry for the rant.