In the PUA community, daygame is sometimes talked about as a standalone skill, where you go out during the day with the sole intention of approaching women and asking them out on dates.

However, the more I thought about it, the more I realized that my goal shouldn't be to "get good at daygame", but instead, to become the kind of man who is extremely social, who consistently talks to strangers, and who isn't afraid of flirting with the attractive women he meets. Why?

First of all, I want to be able to meet women in my daily life - while I'm at the supermarket doing groceries, while I'm with a friend having a walk, or at a bar. So I want my practice to be as general as possible. If I only learn to approach women with a certain set of conditions, i.e. at the street, during the day, when both of us are alone, etc. then I'm very constrained in my ability to approach women and ask them out on dates.

Second, I want this skill to become my identity. I don't wanna be the guy who's opened 1000 sets, I wanna be the guy who's fiercely social and unashamed of his desires. If I treat this like a standalone skill, then I can become busy and stop doing it. But if it becomes my personality, I'll always be social to people in my daily life.

Lastly, I think it's also important that I not only talk to women I wanna F. After all, life is more than that, and I should be open to all kinds of connections. And I really think that being used to starting conversations with lots of strangers can be really helpful when you wanna approach a beautiful woman - that way you're socially warmed up and don't have to go from 0 to 100.

For the daygamers, what's your opinion about this? And for everyone, do you know good resources that propose challenges to become better at daygame from this perspective?