Daygame outside the USA

EndOfTheUniverse · 2015-07-20T18:06:40+00:00

Londoner here.

It's all about expanding your worldview. During my first 3 months in University a lot of people I'm still friends with today, I met by cold approaching. Granted we belonged to the same university so we were both part of the same "tribe". But it's about 50:50 between people I was introduced to and people I cold approached, because I was that kinda guy.

However I've cold approached people in starbucks that didn't go to my uni, and had some awesome in-depth conversations, and I was just too lazy to follow up on.

Cool people like to meet new cool people. If in the first few moments you both share a similar world view about something (something you guys can identify with, aka you're part of the same tribe) then the conversation will go deeper. If heck you're intriguing enough it's not the hardest thing to get an email or a facebook, to follow up with them.

The critical thing however is to follow up. Ping the person a week later, and actually y'know...meet up with them.

Notice how nothing I said mentioned girls. That's because if you're going to be into cold approaching, especially in a city like London, where no-one talks to one another, it has to be your COMPLETE mindset. You have to be into cold approaching anyone you think looks cool.

If you get in the mindset of just cold approaching girls and girls alone, you will fail. Why? I don't know, I just know from experience. Maybe it's because your putting girls on a pedestal. Maybe because going out just to meet girls isn't attractive, and girls can sense that. I don't know. What I do know, is that the best days for cold approaching girls, are the days when it's natural as fuck, and it happens without me intending for it to happen. How? Because I was in an open mindset, cold approaching and willing to meet new people generally.

Easy tip for you, whenever I'm in a bookstore, I approach someone if they're looking at a book I've read or I'm interested in reading. Guy or Girl. Young or Old.

If 10% of those cold approaches is a hot girl, well heck, that's 10% more of hot girls I wouldn't have met.

Andrian-TQM · 2015-07-20T14:33:39+00:00

If you go to Oxford Street in London you will find within an hour at least 10 people practicing cold approach. You probably don't know stories of people who have started a relationship through cold approach because your social circle is not into game. I would suggest to get to know people who are practicing game and go out together.

mashisuh · 2015-07-20T16:12:49+00:00

I went to dance clubs 3+ times a week for over a year while living in South Korea and Japan, and some of the hottest and by far the best long term relationships were from girls I met walking on the street. Don't get me wrong, I had some of the most exciting and best stories from the clubs, but those girls never turned into LTRs for me.

I can speak conversationally fluent Korean but the hottest girl I got from daygame I did not speak any Korean to. When I saw her, my whole world just paused, my brain wasn't firing right, I forgot I wasn't in my homeland where people speak English, and I ran up to her and just exuded excitement at seeing such a beautiful specimen. She could barely understand anything I was saying while I was enthusiastically talking AT her, like I was examining and describing a beautiful painting I had just found, and then I just shoved my phone into her hands at the end and she gave me her phone number with a big smile on her face. Met up later and best fucking thing in the world.

To get to this point where I was able to approach such a hot girl with such good energy was because I approached many girls before her and I was walking with friends and talking a lot before I saw her. When you are trying to warm-up, stop rationalizing and saying she is not hot enough. If you don't want to date her, just don't go for the number then and just practice getting out of your comfort zone and talking to a random girl on the street. It is easier when you're in a big city with lots of people. Even when I lived in the heart of Gangnam, surrounded with a sea of hot women, I would rationalize that they weren't hot enough for me and make excuses not to approach, just because I wasn't in the mood. Fucking do it and make yourself get into the mood.

I thought a lot of my success came from my language skills but it was a smaller degree than I thought. I met an awesome guy that did daygame only in English with girls and if the girls couldn't understand at all he would start making them laugh with words like APPLE and stuff and his energy would just start making them giggle and he got a surprising amount of phone numbers and lays with little to no communication.

I will be heading to China soon, so hopefully I can learn more about having no language skills and picking up.

dallas_89 · 2015-07-20T19:19:53+00:00

I am in Canada (I Feel we do have a somewhat distinct national culture from the United States besides the different regions in Canada) but I have only seen it once in my life and it was really sad since the guy who was about to talk to the girl immediately another guy started chatting her up.

I only attempted to chat up and immediately get a middle aged woman's phone number once ( I did it too quickly but i was so nervous so I doubt I would have gotten it anyways) and I just met her on the street and asked directions to the subway station.

After that I said I enjoyed talking to her and I mistakenly immediately asked for her number which she said no, god I wanna kick myself now i think about it but whatever!

I love the Netherlands, btw you have a really beautiful country how is the gaming arena in your country?

nfornear · 2015-07-20T23:00:41+00:00

Also from the Netherlands here. My sister got cold approached a few weeks ago. She was very open minded to it. But maybe that was because she knows I read this stuff as well, and she knows people who do cold approach are trying to make themselves a better person.

But I definitely think outside of the US the same principles apply!

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-20T14:37:07+00:00

Search seddit for discussion of PU in your country. The search I tried was below (but you could also try "Dutch"):

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=Netherlands&restrict_sr=on

If you had, you would have found posts are about from people doing pickup in your country. Here area a few examples:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vwzxz/starting_a_seddit_lair_in_the_netherlands/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1vgs7f/looking_for_dutch_puas_here_in_holland/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dcf2m/where_to_pickup_girls_in_amsterdam_netherlands/

killroy901 · 2015-07-20T16:42:23+00:00

Is there anyone from the middle east? Specifically UAE? I am really afraid to practice Daygame because of the culture here. Would love to hear some success stories.

BMot · 2015-07-20T17:30:59+00:00

I'm new to daygaming (and seduction in general), so don't have any experiences to share.

I'm British and follow a YouTube channel by a British guy named Johnny Berba. He does seem to - whether by coincidence or by design - approach foreign girls.

I live in a less diverse part of the country, so it would be good to see more approaching of British girls.

I haven't seen many other British PUAs though - either here or on YouTube - so I'm always on the lookout.

I get the impression that daygaming in the UK is more "low energy" than the US.

BoomBabyDaggers · 2015-07-20T22:30:28+00:00

The language of love has no borders brotha

tkmaximus · 2015-07-20T22:55:31+00:00

There's a YT channel called Street Attraction by a Londoner called Richard who does cold approaches w/ infield audio, amongst other things. Doesn't post very often but has some good stuff.

Mudko3 · 2015-07-21T00:10:37+00:00

Just got back from a month long trip to Europe. And let me tell you. I found it crazy difficult to day game in Europe simply because people tended to keep themselves. Tourists on the other hand were the bomb to day game.

SirByron · 2015-07-21T03:18:19+00:00

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RickyRockyDude · 2015-07-23T09:08:09+00:00

I'm from Norway, where if you see someone you know on the bus, it's normal to pretend you didn't see them...

Guess what? This is an advantage! Instead of girls being used to, and tired of, guys approaching them it's usually a new experience (and yes, I only approach hot girls).

I usually do one hour of cold approaching daygame solo per day.

7th_son_of_7th_son · 2015-07-20T17:22:46+00:00

Go to versiercoach.nl, they have a daygame academy specifically for Dutch/Belgian daygame. It'll cost you but it's worth it, 24/7 support from the founders and a large Facebook group with clients. Most of them daygame together as well. But they have some free youtube videos as well.

Because the woman are different you need a different type of method, they tell you exactly why and what to do.

Title	Daygame outside the USA
Author	TheRealYellowClaw
Upvotes	65
Comments	36
Date	July 20, 2015 1:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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