I broke the curse and had my first time, but I was kind of lame?

Phool__ · 2022-10-25T00:05:23+00:00

My first time was the exact same bro. With experience you will learn what you like and don't like, and whatever the outcome its totally fine. As men we are naturally always on guard, girls that like to feel dominated can be shocking to guys in todays society. It can trigger a natural response of wtf is going on and kinda put you in a fight or flight response and not know what to do. Thats probably what happened to you, it was an overstimulus and your brain was like fuck this shit im out. Therefore you were not able to enjoy it 100%. But by the sounds of it she enjoyed it so im sure you will get another go at it ;)

Charge36 · 2022-10-25T00:18:26+00:00

My first time was underwhelming and I couldn't get off.

It takes a little time to adjust to the in person experience rather than the lifetime of jacking off you're currently accustomed to

moderndaygenghis · 2022-10-25T00:08:24+00:00

My first time was a disaster too. I didn't know what the fuck I was doing. Things will only get better from here.

incognito3107 · 2022-10-25T07:39:24+00:00

It will get better. You will learn how to get yourself and her aroused more, you will have less pressure to perform, you will get to know what works and what does not, your technique will improve. First time usually feels somewhat incomplete, due to lack of experience and inaccurate expectations. From now, improve your sexual attractiveness, learn and test things to become a real sex machine. Get her to the highest heavens, fulfill your sexual desires, make yourself more excited and last longer.

Also, if you managed to make her come, why would it matter that you are a virgin?

UnifiedField9000 · 2022-10-26T03:37:57+00:00

You did the right thing by not saying you’re a virgin, because it really makes no difference and is only your business. It makes me laugh (but also feel sad) on the r/virgin sub where the guys are all feeling like their virginity is a crime they have to confess.

I get that they think if they don’t say something, the girl is going to wonder why he wasn’t a super stud in bed… but guys who’ve had lots of sex still have shitty performances and especially with a new girl. And most girls know that, so it’s no big deal

osavpoiss · 2022-10-25T00:09:06+00:00

First times suck for everybody. It took me 8 different times (I only had ons, so.. 8 different girls) to finally enjoy it. That happened also due to me telling the girl I wanted to have sex with that I don't enjoy sex and it's not pleasant for me.

She then instructed me what to do and took it slow.. after that I have started to enjoy sex a lot.

pusillanimous303 · 2022-10-25T04:34:58+00:00

First time is underwhelming for everyone. The more experience to get, the more you’re able to relax. And for guys, stress is the number one mood killer.

alexxdeleon · 2022-10-25T23:00:06+00:00

It be like that , if you watch porn it may lead you to believe otherwise

Ok_Tomatillo804 · 2022-10-25T02:34:38+00:00

My first time with a condom was terrible because it was to small (you should get custom condoms) and I didn't use silicone based lube on my dick and inside the condom. My first time raw was way better.

Title	I broke the curse and had my first time, but I was kind of lame?
Author	DarkFite
Upvotes	20
Comments	11
Date	October 24, 2022 11:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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