I’m 30, I have really weird facial features and I’m one of the uglier people I know, is it possible for me to be attractive to a woman? (Pics included)

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themanbat · 2022-10-10T00:43:16+00:00

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Hardrox13 · 2022-10-10T00:41:23+00:00

If Serge Gainsbourg who self-proclaimed one of the ugliest face of France was able to date brigitte bardot arguably one of the 10 hottest woman to ever walk the earth you have your chance at seducing every woman

Even then I can't say you look bad. It's all about confidence. There's 4 billions women on earth so even if just 0.1% is attracted to you that still make a lot of girl wanting your D

Gg on keeping going to the gym despite the confidence issue you got this !

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-10-10T00:58:01+00:00

Yeah there’s a tonne about you that I’m gonna critique, but it’s not gonna be about your appearance. By the look in your eyes I can tell you’re a chronic masturbator, so pack that in immediately. Jack up your protein intake to 180 grams a day and lift heavier. Change your mental outlook to “yes I can” rather than the bleak depressing stuff you posted up, you’d be surprised how many miracles you can perform. Finally, women are considerably aroused by dominant males, so if looks aren’t your strong suit then up the alpha. I know guys who are straight up ugly but pull tail because they’re badasses. Finally, stop living for women, if women are the end goal you’re going to live a miserable life. If it’s the looks thing that’s mentally stopping you then get yourself in the best shape of your life, the mental affect is potent. All the best

whenthingswerebetter · 2022-10-10T01:48:40+00:00

You’re not getting chicks because of your attitude not your looks. Your looks ultimately don’t matter the way you think they do. There are so many women out there who look at guys and think “the uglier the better” as long as they have confidence, ambition, or power. You sound like you think a makeover is going to get things to work for you. It wont. Go get practice talking to people and having fun. Go learn to have fun with women, not get with them and you will be 90% of the way there. Find women with your interests. Have a good time. Don’t try and sleep with them. If you can do all that you’ll find that you can just look your best and that’s enough.

bape1 · 2022-10-10T01:09:59+00:00

You don’t look like you workout at all tbh. Get jacked before you worry about anything else

MayhemReignsTV · 2022-10-10T01:14:50+00:00

I have seen people with much less to work with work magic. Your looks are not your problem.

Woujo · 2022-10-10T03:25:50+00:00

You look unattractive but not because of your forehead or jaw or any of that shit. You are unattractive because your body looks flabby and you look sad and low self esteem. If you went to the gym, ate right, and got some confidence you would be done.

yonas_ch · 2022-10-10T01:15:53+00:00

Man I'm really not trying to make you feel better, but you're an average looking guy idk why ur being hard so on ur self.

Famous_Tap2546 · 2022-10-10T00:39:40+00:00

Try growing your hair and beard out if possible

420villian · 2022-10-10T03:01:35+00:00

Dude see a therapist I was expecting to see a Gollum. You look like my boy that’s a foot shorter than you and he gets dimes regularly. You talk as if you’re disfigured you might have some type of dysmorphia.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-10-10T01:12:08+00:00

I was expecting much worst. You have a lot of room to improve on.

The haircut doesn’t suit you, maybe a low fade would look better on you.

The clothing style doesn’t suit you, all those basic t-shirts, just don’t really give you a sex appeal. You need to start wearing chains, and get slim fit shirts without sleeves unbuttoned to show more of your chest, or sleeveless vests.

You need to get leaner, you need to reduce body fat and work on your abs, triceps, back, and shoulders, to give you a more masculine look. Stop eating sugar and processed foot, and reduce carbs to the bare minimum.

You need to wax and get rid of all your body hair, except the hair in your head. So the hair in the arms, the entire legs, the stomach, the genitals, the back, the feet, all of that needs to go.

Hair is anti-aesthetic. It just doesn’t look good on anyone, no matter what people say.

eevanja99 · 2022-10-10T01:09:57+00:00

I’ve seen actors who look similar to you, actors who are attractive. Stop being so hard on yourself my guy. I can relate to you though, as a brown dude as well it was hard to overcome my OWN (nor saying you also have it) internalized racism and thinking I was ugly for being brown, but one day after a long journey I got here and now I look In the mirror and think I look hot every day. Not to mention this isn’t the most flattering angle for anyone

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Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-10T03:54:49+00:00

I'm going to be real with you bro. You are at a disadvantage for sure. The other guys telling you you are not bad looking are just being nice.

Here's what you need to do to have the best chance at success:

Build your body as best you can. Get jacked to make up for your looks. Also get a stylish haircut.
Don't focus on girls at all and instead, do everything you can to make as much money as you can. Money is another way you can make up for your looks.

Once you've done at least one of the two, but preferably both, use them to your advantage when talking to girls and you'll likely find some success.

Don't expect to be getting with supermodels though, unless you've really made a ton of money. Lower your expectations looks-wise for the girls you do end up getting with.

evetrapeze · 2022-10-10T04:01:51+00:00

So what of you look Indian? You are certainly not ugly, and I might even say that you are more attractive than just average. I don't see how your looks would get in the way of having a relationship

Lucky-Mustard · 2022-10-10T04:12:41+00:00

You are not even ugly. Go to gym, buy some clothes, a parfume. Take it slow but never stop.

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zapadz · 2022-10-10T00:38:50+00:00

Yes, but you need to learn and practice how to attract women

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYmFAWvk0TU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-jvM3NSs6Y

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fuUPdPov0K4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY

Less_Ad_9261 · 2022-10-10T00:54:38+00:00

You are not ugly. I'm not saying this to comfort you. And one the feminine perspective they don't even know themselves what they want and what they find attractive. So build your confidence and get out in this cruel world to get your queen.

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2022-10-10T01:41:13+00:00

man, i’ve seen some absolutely haggard dudes pull insanely hot girls.

i have a friend who is not attractive but he is so confident and consult pulls insanely hot women.

No-Contribution-3415 · 2022-10-10T01:48:37+00:00

Dude, you're not ugly! I looked at your picture before I read the paragraph that you wrote totally dissing yourself, and I didn't even notice your "big forehead", so it must not be THAT big... Honestly you are not unattractive in the slightest. The only thing I can think of that you can do to be more attractive is to change your opinion of yourself. Believe it or not, the way you're feeling might be reflecting on the outside. If you felt like you were a hot stud and had the confidence in yourself, others would sense that, and think so too. The mind is one powerful thing. Start telling yourself, (even if you don't believe it at first), that you're the best looking person you know and that you could have any girl you want and see how things change for you after a few weeks/months. You'll be surprised I bet. I wish you the best and I hope your dreams all come true. If you are beautiful on the inside then you can't possibly be ugly on the outside. Stay well & xoxo Katie

theeyeofvoid · 2022-10-10T01:58:11+00:00

my intention is not to minimize your feelings, but cmon you are not ugly, I see you pretty normal, I am brown skin, half bald and 50+ pounds overweight but I still attractive to some people even I got a date with a model, you don’t know what other people thinks or like, we always assume the worst thing but rl is totally different, to me you look tired but not ugly

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enwobi1 · 2022-10-10T02:00:44+00:00

Hell yeah you can get women. It’s all about confidence and how you talk to women. Talk to them like they’re your friend. There’s more and these are just the basics you can start doing to get a little bit more results

brtnjames · 2022-10-10T02:06:18+00:00

This was disappointing, you look normal

MysteriousManlet · 2022-10-10T02:08:01+00:00

Bro you’re not ugly… you just need to train heavy and work on your appearance…

A good wardrobe, a good haircut and a good beard line up can literally change your life.

You look like an average joe. Stand out. Work on your style. Lift some heavy fkn weight and find what works for you.

Personally, since you’re more mature looking, I can see you wearing some nice shirts and pants and blazers, but try things out. Wear some form fitting clothing, maybe some muscle tees or shirts rather than loose fit.

Once you get your appearance down, you will look good and feel good.

Confidence comes from within, but looking confident helps heaps.

If you take care of your appearance and look like you care about your appearance, then subconsciously you’re telling everyone that you’re not a slob and you value yourself.

Just my two cents from personal experience.

SilverSkyer · 2022-10-10T02:16:37+00:00

Naaaah dude you're not even that bad looking. I see guys who look like you with honies.

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-10T02:19:08+00:00

Don't give women reasons to reject you. Let them make that decision yourself.

Primarily you have to stop beating yourself up and display sexual confidence to women.

Women often obsess over their looks as well. But men often want "some strange" with overweight and homely girls as well.
Similarly you just don't know what women are into!

Doomgiven · 2022-10-10T02:29:58+00:00

Bro you don't look bad you just need to smile

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sewsaysew · 2022-10-10T04:19:56+00:00

No one will ever like you until you like yourself. Get some hobbies, learn how to enjoy spending time alone, have FUN. Get some clothes that are a classic style and fit well. Get a good haircut. You’ll attract what you are. You’re currently attracting people who think you’re ugly and unconfident because THATS YOUR VIBE. Get your head right.

CorwinHavens · 2022-10-10T05:01:59+00:00

My brother

You look fine, man. Don't sweat the stuff you can't control. You need to first become comfortable with yourself. This is the most important first step. You look perfectly fine the way you are. You are a good person.

If you can manage that.

Get some really nice clothes. Invest in a wardrobe. Read up on different fashion blogs on what is in style if you have to. Get yourself a massage and manicure. Women notice small details. Having groomed nails will help. And having a massage will help you relax.

After that, Get your hair styled. Find something you like. Talk with stylists. It may cost some money to get it right, but it will help a lot.

And if you need an opener, try this one: "oh hey, didn't I see you in my (insert subject here) class last semester?" When you do that, smile and try to imagine you are greeting an old friend. Be non-threatening. Be friendly. And only use that opener once or twice to get used to talking with women.

Title	I’m 30, I have really weird facial features and I’m one of the uglier people I know, is it possible for me to be attractive to a woman? (Pics included)
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Date	October 10, 2022 12:30 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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