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userisauser · 2022-09-15T00:44:10+00:00

The moment you make eye contact, you either say something or she thinks you're a bitch. Never look away but you also need to do something about it. Go for what you want.

What do you say? Well, you should already have that one tailored specifically for her before you make eye contact. Say something positive about her that she can identify with that she probably hasn't notice.

If you're a real boss, you could just ignore her while getting in her physical area while exuding confidence, masculine energy, and demonstrating that people around her like you more than her. That will cause her to open open. But that's more rare and I'd go with the former.

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Big_Enthusiasm3016 · 2022-09-14T21:31:11+00:00

I get nervous lol.

Plane_Reflection6053 · 2022-09-14T23:59:43+00:00

Smile/wave and see her reaction, if its positive aproach her.

desal · 2022-09-15T00:04:12+00:00

give her your best tap dance for a tight 2 min

Wazzock_PP · 2022-09-15T01:49:19+00:00

Sounds like you just have a confidence issue,5’11” by itself is an attractive feature for women. Ong the amount of confidence I feel just wearing 2” lifts is night an day an I’m still shorter than you.

At this point in your natural state you just need to start up some conversations. Literally just conversations no game or seduction required. Make a few female friends at the gym that you greet regularly an in two weeks there will be less staring an more of them just coming over to talk to you an shit. Invite some out to hang as friends, Eventually they will make a move on you if you haven’t made one yourself.

Key_Sense685 · 2022-09-14T23:56:11+00:00

!Hi! Are you using this (name of the gym equippment she is using)? Can we share it?

zapadz · 2022-09-15T01:24:29+00:00

Smile look away then look back

Think_History_5682 · 2022-09-15T01:30:31+00:00

Ask her to take a picture, it will last longer

You know I start charging after 10 seconds

Excuse me sir will you stop leering at me

Lord_Goose · 2022-09-15T01:45:01+00:00

The test here is that whenever a girl looks at you, you gotta pull out your dick and see if they suck it.

This is known in the Ancient Chinese Texts, as simply, "The Trial."

mabden · 2022-09-15T02:14:19+00:00

Smile. If she smiles back, approach.

Delicatestatesmen · 2022-09-15T05:24:05+00:00

Guys project all the time.. they think girls are staring at them or looking at them.. this is a projection from your imagination. You think girls are wanting you and staring at you when they are not. In the off chance they are who cares unless she likes you or wants you she will put herself in your orbit or make herself known. If its just a stare then it means jack shit.

If she waves at you or comes next to you then your getting what we call choosing signals.

DarkWifeuo · 2022-09-15T02:50:42+00:00

U must be pretty ugly if u lookmaxed and still a 7

gillmanblacklagooner · 2022-09-15T00:20:47+00:00

Look her in the eyes, nod your head and say ‘hey…’ in a sharp way.

LordFodex · 2022-09-14T23:08:24+00:00

Look away then my face look creeping

denali_HD2020 · 2022-09-14T23:15:04+00:00

Say hello, and go from there. Judge their interest and ask for a number and a date.

Vegetable-Mobile-430 · 2022-09-14T23:37:11+00:00

Smiles and wave boys just smile and wave

PsychologicalDeer502 · 2022-09-15T03:44:59+00:00

Hip thrust while maintaining eye contact and mouth "schwing"

what-diddy-what-what · 2022-09-15T03:55:32+00:00

Simpler the better. Smile at her, walk up to her, hold out your hand and say "hi". This is a bold self confident approach. Keep in mind though, just b/c someone looks doesn't mean they are interested. They might be attached, etc.

plasticlightsaber69 · 2022-09-15T04:17:05+00:00

24m, shredded with a sick jawline; gym 5 days a week, maybe Saturdays to get a pump before going out.

-From my experience, this is my take:

#1 Women want attention; seduce her by not giving a shit about her. If she's interested in you, there are major signs (E.g. she's bending her booty over in a nonchalant way, purposely waiting to hit an exercise to impress you (and show off her goods), and purposely making effort to workout near you.. etc.)

--If you play this right, you'll make her panties so moist, because she'll think she's not enough for you, but in reality, you'd marry her in Vegas tonight.

#2 Scope out and understand the situation. Is she single? Is her man a beta? Women are very emotional creatures and are equally, if not more likely to cheat under the heat of the moment. Younger chicks are more likely, but older women require a little more effort. It all depends on the ambiance and how you set up your relationship with her.

--Don't be demoralized for making her cheat, you're actually helping her man see her for who she is (glass half full). In football, just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.

#3 Show her that you're not a creep. No need to start up a random conversation, but ease it in. My favorite technique is to simply ask her if shes using the grip or machine. Stray away from asking her how many sets she has because this could give her anxiety (and reinforce yours).

-My 2 cents, kind of lazy to continue writing this, but do let me know if you have any questions. I'm currently trying to smash a new chick every week organically (without dating apps), so I have some experience under my belt.

Iceman702 · 2022-09-15T04:45:21+00:00

Bro, just walk up to her and say “I couldn’t help but notice you, and I wanted to introduce myself to you. My name is …….” Start from there bro ask her if she wants coffee or lunch. Focus the convo on her bro. unless she ask you something about you. Show her your interested right off the back.

2022-09-15T06:29:55+00:00

Look at her back, maybe even smile sometime. If she fancies you, she will become ecstatic. If you receive many positive signals, you can casually come to her with something like "Hey, I like your gaze, I'm XYZ. Wanna take a walk?"

Off2damoon · 2022-09-15T08:11:42+00:00

Here's a real world story for you :

Nearly every morning I go for a jog through the same path by a nearby river. I usually run shirtless and after a workout so I'm in my 'maxed out confidence' vibe and feeling good.

Over the course of last year I crossed paths on my jog with this very cute brunette girl and she would always look at me intently and smile as I jogged passed. I must have crossed her path 3 or 4 dozen times, always with a smile and a stare. The attraction seemed palpable.

About a week ago, I saw her again on my jog path and made a determination that today I'm going to do more than just smile, so I did. After running by her and smiling and staring I looped back around and caught up to her while she sat on a bench. I said hey! I always see you as I'm running by and wanted to introduce myself. She giggled and told me her name. We sparked a conversation that turned into an hour long deep dive into each other's lives, our passions, our work, our outlooks on life. I sat on the bench next to her and it felt like a romantic date right there on the spot. We had so much in common and there was a strong flirtatious oura.

Finally, I had to go to make it in time for a meeting. I walked with her back to the park entrance and went to ask for her number but there was resistance. So to make it more casual I simply asked for her IG and told her jokingly I'll slide into her DMs. She accepted my IG request and first thing I see is a profile filled with her and her long term, loving fiance.

So does staring mean you should approach? Yes! Does it mean she wants you to approach? TBD. You will never know until you do it.

Archyblackcat · 2022-09-15T20:44:08+00:00

Bro relax just cause a girl is checking you out doesn’t mean she likes you.. them just like us check out the opposite sex when the chance arises.. you must have really low self esteem to get exited because a girl checks you out… a ton of girls always check me out too but I don’t think nothing of it, I check out girls too just for the fuck of it … if you like her though approach

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