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[–]Baby_willie 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go to the toilet and bust a nut. You have 2 kids and a wife. A 24 yo walking around in night time shorts is going to look like a 24 yo walking around in night time shorts. Don’t risk throwing away what you’ve got.
[–]dump_fool 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your kids are in her care...how much are you willing to risk? Seriously.
[–]EducationalMeeting95 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Acceptance is what you need.
Acceptance that you can't get her.
It will calm you and help you with you urges.
[–]JF803 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeaaaa this one is probably best left as a fantasy. If you feel open enough to, talk to your wife about it. Might help get it out of your system in a different way.
[–]creativedave73 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're her employer. She might feel obligated to sleep with you because she's afraid of losing her job. This job is important to her and her family. Don't be the guy who uses his power to manipulate women to sleep with them.
[–]MountainGoatSC 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bad idea
[–]ericviking007007 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask a lawyer how much your child support will be
[–]Reasonable-Low4120 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty bold of you to cheat in your non monogamous marriage. Like you literally can go almost anywhere as long as you communicate it with your wife but you can't even do that. You want what you can't have, like a toddler having a tantrum, grow the fuck up and be a man.
This is fucking embarrassing.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It takes a real man to practice self-control. even if your desire is primal.
[–]NeothegreatRedditor 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the stupidest thing I‘ve read, maybe ever.
[–]EducationalMeeting95 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just wait till you hear his divorce lawsuit.
[–]YouGotTangoed 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like she has everything to gain, and you have everything to lose. One statement of attempted rape from her after you have sex, and your life is ruined for at least the next 10 years. Is 24yr old pussy worth it that much?
You’re a good looking guy apparently, so go get it somewhere else, and wisen up
[–]Buns_McGillicuddy 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s on your payroll buddy. It certainly doesn’t count as seduction, maybe sexual harassment technically since you have control of her employment. TBH even it happens it should bring you no pleasure as there’s a huge power imbalance, so haven’t accomplished much. Not to to mention it could seriously F up everyone’s life in that house. If you need to cheat be discreet, not the nanny and take it elsewhere. This is dumb, and also so cliche.
[–]Puzzled_Nail_1962 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seconding that you should absolutely not pursue this. But if you do anyway, make very sure she wants it as well. With the language barrier there, do what you'd do verbally physically instead. But again, be very careful and see and respect her reaction.
Good luck.
[–]DontCallMeTopher -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sheesh that sounds rough! I don’t know how these guys that have these hot ass young au pairs living with them handle it. Like dangling a steak in front of a hungry lion. My buddy is dating a sexy au pair and apparently the wife is a bitch to her because she is young and hot and the husband is all nice to her. But yeah…jus try now out bro. Don’t skeet where ya eat
[–]Jdollarthegreat 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I seen a porn like this once. As she's cleaning just whip it out. Then if she comes over and starts sucking it you're in 😉
[–]V-Future 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lawyers are going to roast your ass.
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