Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men [recovered]

Danthxny · 2022-08-18T16:12:26+00:00

Number 7 is great. Speaking without expecting/looking for a certain reaction or response. I see a ton of my friends do this and they come off as needy.

bill0124 · 2022-08-18T20:06:42+00:00

I think 6 is a little misleading. You should absolutely be dropping your achievements. They build attraction and gives her something to brag about with her friends to boost her own prestige. It's all about how you drop them.

You want to drop them naturally as a part of unrelated discussion, and later in conversations. You do this so you don't appear to be bragging (obviously), and when it's later in a conversation it won't be interpreted as a qualifier. You are already qualified to her by this point. It will be treated as added value. And depending on the accomplishment, it will shape how she sees you moving forward. That's big. And it's great when she reacts to it with amazement. Because then you can act all humble and that's good because 1. Everyone likes a humble guy, reaffirms the not bragging thing and 2. It makes the accomplishment seem common to you like its not a big deal cause you are that good.

And, to me, that's what it's all about. You want her to think you are some hyper successful, smart, and incredibly competent dude. When a girl starts to admire you like that, she will feel the need to prove herself to you.

I find this incredibly effective, especially if you have good accomplishments.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-18T18:41:38+00:00

Decisiveness is huge. Huge turn offs for girls if guys waver back and forth. only your dik should do this.

Cute_Bunny_Berkska · 2022-08-18T13:07:45+00:00

Spot-on list. Absolutely spot on.

Naturally, all those things come with practice. And you have to understand when to use them as well, when to feign submission (such as in the face of police, lest their ego be hurt and you spend a night in jail).

It's all about knowing it, internalizing it, and known when and how much of a certain action to take in any given situation.

WhiteningMcClean · 2022-08-18T21:48:21+00:00

Thanks for this, especially #1. Being uncomfortable with silence is something I’m trying to change.

literallyou · 2022-08-18T21:28:12+00:00

Nice

shivaburade · 2022-08-19T07:54:06+00:00

Can you explain point 3?

neverfearreality · 2022-08-18T19:15:38+00:00

How do you know when to be silent and when not to be

epimpstyle · 2022-08-19T14:06:30+00:00

This is another way of trying to show you how difficult it is to talk to someone else and I see a few things that I do not agree with at all.

Common sense will tell you that it is strange if it is silence when you are talking to a new person, you can not be comfortable with it because the girl is already placed in a weird situation by talking to a stranger but in case you are dumb and you are happy with the silence, I can not imagine what's next....
If you force eye contact, you look like a pervert, it is not normal, the other person will make a step backward if you look her non-stop into her eyes
It doesn't matter how you speak... it is nonsense to try to change your voice, let it be as it is but it is good to talk slowly and clearly. This is common sense, it is not special.

Regarding the 5, I don't know if taking space is good, actually, it is better to be relaxed.

Many times I'm using the names of important people I know IRL, for example: "let's go to X restaurant, maybe the manager XXXX is there, he is my friend" - it is nothing wrong. Another example: "I have a sword from Japan on the wall in my bedroom" - why is wrong? If we talk about cars and I tell her that I have 6 cars in my garage, I find it normal... I don't know why is wrong. Actually, you make a girl curious about your lifestyle, this is not a minus point.

I'm not talking about the other things because my post is long enough but be yourself and use common sense. Talking to people is not a science, in the moment you are trying to use all kinds of rules, you are not yourself and you will make a bunch of mistakes.

ChipmunkResponsible4 · 2022-08-19T17:01:47+00:00

Number 9. How ? Whenever I call people out for example.

I texted You and you left me on read and you telling me that I’m MIA.

Don’t play with me.

They’ll be like sorry. But they do it again

Otava_avatO · 2022-08-19T23:05:07+00:00

About no. 5, as a woman... Please don't take so much space in a public transport. You don’t need to manspread in anywhere but especially not next to us women when we are trying to sit comfortably in a bus, train etc. Thanks!

Title	Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men [recovered]
Author	MK2718 [recovered]
Upvotes	108
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Date	August 18, 2022 1:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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