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[–]Justwatchinitallgoby 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Did she say this to you? If so….what she meant is she doesn’t like you. At least not as a romantic or sexual interest.
[–]VeliVoy 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
No, but in the friend circle
[–]Justwatchinitallgoby 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Got it. Don’t be something that you’re not. Be you. She’s not the one for you. And if she is, she’ll come to you.
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That’s some dumb advice, if you want to stay lame then keep yourself lame, don’t bring others down with you. This guy probably wants more lays and hotter girls
[–]Justwatchinitallgoby 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Alright that what would you suggest? If a girl ain’t interested…my advice is to back the fuck off and let her come to you. That may never happen, but you gotta be easy.
What’s your advice to Op?
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It depends on his goals
Any man who wants to settle down at a young age has never had the luxury of options. They don’t have multiple women, guys with swag do. So they don’t settle down because they constantly have women chasing them and endless sex.
I’m still trying to figure this out but I recommended to make try to make friends with guys who get a bunch of girls and learn from them. They’ll teach him masculine energy and learn how to get these hoes
[–]Justwatchinitallgoby 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe the best thing is to focus on yourself..get a solid job, a home, and some stability.
But….I’ve always been good with women. Sure it helps to have those things.
But the most important thing is being confident in who you are.
Oh….and the only guys who call women hoes and sluts are men who are NOT fucking those girls. So, take that out Of your vocabulary. Like girls who say “fuck boy,” are talking about men they want to be with.
That said…you’ll rarely get the girl you pursue. Be 100% you…and they will come
[–]Banhammer40000 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Confidence, sense of humor, light teasing and playful banter. It’s all about the push and pull. Give two, pull one back.
[–]ActionEve 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Wow…
Start walking around like you don’t give a fuck
[–]VeliVoy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I start to feel cringe-like
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
This above, attitude like you don't care much about her. It drives women mad.
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’ve tried that and it repulses them, it doesn’t drive them mad. It only drives them mad if they like you already
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So are you doing cold approach, without making eye contact? It you've eye contact the game is set, your invitation to approach and providing your not a dick, she will reciprocate.
I was sat at a bar In Chicago, a group of women came in and after 5 mins I made eye contact with 1 of them. Slowly the group came over to my side of the room and they started talking loud about their sexual experiences. The one who made eye contact sat at the side of me and instantly got approached with a guy, using a pickup line but she blew him out. I said her dress looked lovely and matched her earrings. She smiled and said, "you like what you see?" I replied, "yes, but the dress makes your butt look big" with a smile. We talked, we drank and we got food. Later we got breakfast.
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Idk why you are assuming you get I’m not making eye contact with women, very strange
But I had experiences with women and gotten their numbers and we chopped it up. They never replied to me ever again
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Like your username, your clueless with women. "They never replied to your text", says it all...
What is that suppose to mean? I can’t control if they text me back or not
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because your boring text is not sparking their interest. It's like all the other guys who text and is nothing special!
The content of the text is lame, boring and doesn't spark any intrigue for her to reply to.
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So what are examples of not “boring” texts
I didn’t know I was born to entertain women like a clown 🤡
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Generally it means with leadership skills, strong character, serious values, confident with himself etc.
[–]VeliVoy 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sorry..I mean **seddit. Got confused.
[–]tocepsijufaz 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We know what you meant ;)
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao 🤣
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It basically means that when you talk to women, that you look at them like you know you can shag them really well in the sack. And you talk like you can as well.
It's more body language and vocal tonality.
I've picked up women just going up to them and saying "How surprised would you be to REALLY enjoy spending time with me", in the deepest, sexiest voice I could pull off. And yeah, I pulled her. Didn't need to do too much after that.
[–]VeliVoy -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow thanks
[–]couldnotd3cide -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A better question is: Why are you looking to act like someone you clearly aren’t all for one girl? It’s coming off as cringe and desperate. What makes her so important that you are willing to try to fake being a totally different guy just to get her attention? Also, if she knows you and sees you’re just acting differently after she told you what she likes…how do you think she’ll view that?
[–]SociallyCluelessHELP -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not just one girl, it will be multiple girls who think just like her. Women are more attracted to masculine swag. If currently how he behaves isn’t working, he has to change how he does. People change all the time and this might be for the better
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably means broody men, you’re either that or not. Only a few guys can pull that off without looking like he’s going to kick ass.
You shouldn’t change yourself for her tbh
[–]VeliVoy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What does it mean to be broody? I don't speak much but I don't give off the attitude vibes
[–]caesarfecit 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Strong silent type. Basically play "the King incognito". Lots of confidence, social but eschewing the limelight, and slow to talk but sure of what they say.
The types of girls who go for this type are usually the super-shy hopeless romantic types who project onto him a sort of Bryonic archetype, and the shy butterfly types who tend to have a strong personality, but lack the confidence and social independence to really assert it.
The kinds of girls who read bodice-rippers and imagine charming roguish rakes into being desperately in love with them. It's the sense of mystery and hint of hidden danger that attracts them. Which is why they like their guys brooding, darkly attractive, and at first, immune to their charms.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I think it means she enjoys feeling some friction from the person when it comes time to actually agreeing on something.
Friction in what way?
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Friction as opposed to smooth.
Generates heat...
[–]VeliVoy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Could you give an example
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Specifically, nothing comes to mind. Her liking an attitude might mean she doesn't like men to always agree with her, if she's making a demand or decision and you differ on it. Tell her and oppose her in a way that is fun and invigorating.
Oh makes sense. Shouldn't that turn her off if you disagree with her?
Yeah. It could turn me off too. It really depends how much rapport you have with her.
Attitude doesn't have to be directed at her.
Women are said to be attracted to men that are polarizing.
[–]StaticNocturne 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's mentally damaged and thinks she deserves to be abused
[–]VeliVoy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do you think that
It means she wants a guy who is a challenge to win over, rather than say a Ted Mosby.
Some girls, all they really want is a guy who wants them back and isn't afraid to let it show.
Other girls, they want a guy they choose and chase.
All it really means for a guy is how you approach them. Do you add value to the interaction by say complimenting her, or do you ask for value first, by say teasing her a little and playing hard to get. Ideally you should be doing both, but some women prefer one before the other.
At a guess, I'd suspect your friend OP is a bit of a Type-A personality, probably an 8 or better on the hotness scale, and either is a total social butterfly/tease, or a little more of a shy wallflower with a bit of an attitude herself. Those are the usual two types who want to choose rather than be chosen.
[–]bogues04 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means she likes a cocky guy or one with an edge about them.
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