What's a good response for when you're chatting up an older woman.....

rustoof · 2022-07-04T13:40:47+00:00

"It's OK. You can still call me daddy"

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-07-04T19:52:50+00:00

But I’m old enough to make you feel like a 22 year old again

theKnightWatchman44 · 2022-07-04T18:34:45+00:00

You don't need to, they are incredibly forward and they pull you - you just need to let them do it

great_account · 2022-07-04T21:01:58+00:00

"Yeah but you don't look like my mom"

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-04T12:24:04+00:00

Just agree and amplify:

“You mean, old enough to be my great great great great, grand mother”
“Oh yes, but i’ve always being interested in mummies”

Basically amplify her objection by exaggerating it as much as possible in order to tease her and then change topics.

Banhammer40000 · 2022-07-04T19:21:44+00:00

Just smile and say, “shut up, you are not.” Because that’s the banter she’s expecting.

But if you are in a conversation with more depth/quieter area, or you happen to be chatty (or is reflecting her talkative energy, which is a positive sign especially coupled with a lot of eye contact), you can wax philosophical about the passing nature of physical beauty and how inner beauty like sense of humor, kindness, sophistication endures and only gets more refined with time.

Add something in about aging well like fine wine and tighten the straps on your helmet boy. Older ladies know what they want and know how to get it.

HOWEVER: Only say these things if you mean it, and not as “game” to spit at women. Most of them know a disingenuous line when they hear it. You say these nice, flowery things as a compliment to make them feel better, yes. Not as a way to make your pants area feel good. No. Don’t manipulate people to get your rocks off. Ew. Gross.

Instead, send them an invitation they would gladly accept.

Cyrano De Bergerac wasn’t wrong folks. Study your spellcraft. The right combinations of words can melt the coldest heart, open any locked doors and avail you opportunities unapproachable before. It’s more than abracadabra and open sesame.

Edit: some words

epimpstyle · 2022-07-04T16:52:38+00:00

So, you think that if you are saying a "magic" answer, the lady will jump into your arms ...

DraeNation · 2022-07-05T09:28:21+00:00

I cant provide an answer that works on every single woman but Im a 25 yr old man who has always attracted older women. When they say that line to me(cause it is a line) I usually say something along the lines of "ahh okay so you think I might not be able to keep up with you then?" or just anything putting playful energy out. My humor is self deprecating anyway so it's fun to pretend like I can't handle them. Every time in my experience they laugh and throw a compliment back at you(older women really know how to say encouraging things to you) to which you reinforce the idea that there's no way you can handle her but you'll give it your best shot. They love hearing they're still sexy and appreciated. So to answer your question, really any response that let's her know that age thing doesn't matter to you, as long as she takes it easy.......

DiscussionOk6755 · 2022-07-05T12:08:04+00:00

Bet I can still make you call me daddy tho (don't actually say this unless she's the type)

Befaltu · 2022-07-05T02:42:30+00:00

i would have said, you can be my stepmom, i will show you my dad's pictures.

Say anything, what we say doesn't matter, it's all about the vibe

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2022-07-04T19:17:52+00:00

“I bet you still fuck like you’re my age though”

2022-07-04T15:06:40+00:00

Call her grandma

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-07-04T17:37:33+00:00

Yes you are but I would still do you.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-07-04T18:43:26+00:00

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Title	What's a good response for when you're chatting up an older woman.....
Author	ZachMoore88
Upvotes	26
Comments	29
Date	July 4, 2022 12:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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