How to get a girl really close to you [recovered]

shared0 · 2022-05-19T15:22:53+00:00

Fuck my life.

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-19T18:15:10+00:00

What are you, nine years old? Playing keep away? Come on man.

Woujo · 2022-05-19T19:04:56+00:00

Attractive men don't need cheap tricks like this.

ParticularAmazing112 · 2022-05-20T01:36:57+00:00

As someone with female friends, this works when you’re young (below 19) but once you reach that “mature” age, it kinda just gives off a childish vibe, especially since some women had this done to them many times throughout high school. You just become another dude acting like some dude she remembers from high school.

If you want a girl close to you, fix your body language to be more inviting. Break that first touch barrier and just let it flow from there.

PartyOk4516 · 2022-05-19T20:47:19+00:00

If you have to play like that just for girl to touch you, I don't know what can I say. It is so childish I have no words.

MistyMaisel · 2022-05-19T19:37:04+00:00

Dude, as a short girl, I hate this behaviour. That's my stuff and I don't like having it taken or dangled to me. And I don't like my height being taken advantage of. It feels humiliating and like I'm being treated as weak and essentially bullied.

The blushing and laughing is a mixture of humiliation and fury. It isn't the same blushing and laughing I give to guys I'm pleased with. It's a result of the social pressure not to flip out or be crazy. Because women are always concerned not to flip out or seem crazy and so we sublimate this urge with laughing and blushing when really I want to punch guys in the dick for this.

I do not like guys for this more. I like them less. And the moment I get my stuff back, I make a note that they're willing to bully me to get what they want. And it means they'll never get anything else from me and I don't trust them. Guys used to do this to me all the time and I promise you I never went anywhere with any of them afterwards. It isn't cute.

And when he'd put my arm around me, I'd feel doubly humiliated and irritated. When I got older, I'd shove their arms off and whisper not to touch me so others couldn't hear, but they could. When I was younger, I'd just stand there humiliated and waiting for them to let go so I could leave.

tl:dr: Don't assume every blush is a good thing. It's just a sign of strong emotion. That doesn't mean it is a positive one.

rohankent · 2022-05-19T21:07:38+00:00

Mate, it’s not a high school movie scene. You want a romcom? Go watch the NoteBook.

MisbegotenTarnished · 2022-05-19T23:33:51+00:00

Meh, this is more for when you've already been with the person for a while and know each other well.

luclme · 2022-05-20T02:04:48+00:00

This is the second time today I’ve written ‘I hate this sub sometimes’ on this sub

yourlittleman01 · 2022-05-19T15:51:04+00:00

Guess a 5'4 guy like me can't make a girl blush. :(((

Maymaywala · 2022-05-20T01:28:17+00:00

Yeah nah.

SugarofRoses · 2022-05-20T17:41:49+00:00

Actually, this is really cute IMO. I wouldn’t get angry if someone did this to me, but there definitely has to be a spark first.

Title	How to get a girl really close to you [recovered]
Author	Flashinmoneyonurgirl [recovered]
Upvotes	8
Comments	48
Date	May 19, 2022 3:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ut5obq/how_to_get_a_girl_really_close_to_you/
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