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[–]shared0 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Fuck my life.
[–]SocialReject101 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
5'5"?
[–]shared0 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Actually 6'2.
But fml cuz I don't have anyone to do this to lol.
[–]SocialReject101 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Go on dates lol, it is just that easy, bro. Just be yourself!
[–]shared0 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
it is just that easy, bro.
Are you being serious or??
[–]SocialReject101 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just messing around. It really depends on who you are
[–]shared0 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It really depends on who you are
Yeah I know.
It's more about where I live that's the problem though.
[–]TystaKullen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You live super closed off to the rest of the world in a village with only people biologically related to you?
[–]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No, that's not it. Dating is just taboo in my country and marriage is the only real way to "date". So girls aren't really open to approaches for the most part. I never approach.
[–]Mormanade 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Late but care to share which country? I'm genuinely curious
[–]shared02 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No worries.
It's egypt.
[–]willgo-waggins 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
What are you, nine years old? Playing keep away? Come on man.
[–]MistyMaisel 4 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. I fucking hated guys like this in high school and now I think I would punch them in the dick for my water. If it isn't yours, don't take it. And don't bully me with my height.
The guys I ended up getting with or being friends with were the guys who'd come over and say, "Seriously, give her back her stuff. This isn't cool. She's upset."
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I was playing with her if she didn't like it she would get mad
[–]Orange11a 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro idk what the fuck is wrong with people taking this personally lol
[–]MistyMaisel 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That isn't how it works. You have no idea how much women are not allowed to get mad at the shit men do because then they're considered crazy, bitchy, dramatic, or difficult by your entire peer group. If she got mad you would have said she's overreacting it's just water, calm down.
[–]Shadow__Account 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Who is upvoting this bullshit
[–]MistyMaisel 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm gonna guess other short women who do not want this bad behaviour perpetuated because they found it harmful as teenagers / adults.
[–]Shadow__Account 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you go and get your friends to read this topic or something. Get over yourself, it’s childish but it’s playful, you didn’t need to write out your whole life story and all of your feelings. If you were bullied with your length I’m sorry for you but you will have to deal with it and process it and demanding the world to cater to your trauma instead of you dealing with it, is not the way. Don’t project all your life’s frustration on something random and harmless like this, “women are not allowed” by who? By the imaginary bond of evil men? And you are telling the guy what he would have said in your hypothetical situation, you got issues, don’t project them onto others
[–]MistyMaisel 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, I don't need to juke the stats. That's how confident I am that I'm right. As for the rest of what you said, this is a sub for learning how to attract the gender you're interested in (typically women it seems). So I'm giving solid advice speaking as a woman. And the fact other women chimed in suggests as much. I am over this behaviour and learned to stand up to this bad behaviour by men long ago. I have no attached trauma other than a mild and fleeting desire that I had been stronger then and had just laid a guy out by the balls for this. As for women are not allowed, I'm sorry you don't understand the pressures polite society and peer groups place on women. Clearly, other women do. We don't find it fun. And frankly, you wouldn't either if a big guy took your stuff and wouldn't give it back unless you allowed him to be physically intimate with you. I'm not asking society to adjust, I'm telling individuals that they shouldn't do this to be seductive because it backfires frequently.
[–]manmadestool 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
He said senior so I assume 17/18. I'm a 25 f and would not like that but i probably would have in high school tbh
[–]Orange11a 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are not telling the truth, with the right guy you'd play along. Someone a woman find attractive could get away with harmless silly games like this
[–]manmadestool2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm 25. If I want to rub my boobs against you, I'm not going to play dumb and act like I'm doing it on accident and it'd annoy me if you also tried to make me do that. That's childish and I'd see it as such.
I guess I'd see it as creepy if a guy did that because we've both had plenty of sex before but you're trying to cop a feel "accidentally". I'd rather someone just put their hands around my waist from behind and/or give me a sweet kiss on the cheek. Not too much too soon but also very intentional.
Again this is for older adults and not teens. I completely see the appeal if 1st and 2nd base is newish to you
[–]Woujo 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Attractive men don't need cheap tricks like this.
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's just flirting not a trick
[–]ParticularAmazing112 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As someone with female friends, this works when you’re young (below 19) but once you reach that “mature” age, it kinda just gives off a childish vibe, especially since some women had this done to them many times throughout high school. You just become another dude acting like some dude she remembers from high school.
If you want a girl close to you, fix your body language to be more inviting. Break that first touch barrier and just let it flow from there.
[–]PartyOk4516 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
If you have to play like that just for girl to touch you, I don't know what can I say. It is so childish I have no words.
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't need to do this to get her to touch me. I've hugged and touched plenty of girls a lot before. This is just a more playful way to get close and hug her. Plus I'm 18 and she 17 so we're just playing
[–]MistyMaisel 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
Dude, as a short girl, I hate this behaviour. That's my stuff and I don't like having it taken or dangled to me. And I don't like my height being taken advantage of. It feels humiliating and like I'm being treated as weak and essentially bullied.
The blushing and laughing is a mixture of humiliation and fury. It isn't the same blushing and laughing I give to guys I'm pleased with. It's a result of the social pressure not to flip out or be crazy. Because women are always concerned not to flip out or seem crazy and so we sublimate this urge with laughing and blushing when really I want to punch guys in the dick for this.
I do not like guys for this more. I like them less. And the moment I get my stuff back, I make a note that they're willing to bully me to get what they want. And it means they'll never get anything else from me and I don't trust them. Guys used to do this to me all the time and I promise you I never went anywhere with any of them afterwards. It isn't cute.
And when he'd put my arm around me, I'd feel doubly humiliated and irritated. When I got older, I'd shove their arms off and whisper not to touch me so others couldn't hear, but they could. When I was younger, I'd just stand there humiliated and waiting for them to let go so I could leave.
tl:dr: Don't assume every blush is a good thing. It's just a sign of strong emotion. That doesn't mean it is a positive one.
[–]Wrong_tree 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree, as another short chick I would’ve people pleased my way out of the situation but I would not have liked this person. I’d be extremely uncomfortable having this same person view a way a bullying me as his chosen way to simply say “hey I want to get closer to you but have no clue how to have an actual conversation like we’re equals”.
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I talk to her a lot I just playing with her lmao
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She didn't get mad also I'm pretty sure she won't mind me touching her since I'm fairly certain she likes me
[–]Wrong_tree5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
People pleasing and not minding are 2 very different things. As a 5’3 chick I would’ve laughed and tried but I wouldn’t like it. I wouldn’t have said a thing at that age but I would view it as a guy who’s a bully and doesn’t know how to actually respect or understand a woman.
[–]MistyMaisel 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I want it to be clear, I usually did fancy these boys...until they did this to me. This always killed my attraction to them or even friendship to them stone dead. Just because I like you does not mean I am ready for or want you to touch me.
And even if I were ready for you to touch me, it doesn't me, it does not mean I accept or want a spectacle made of this or you to force me into it against my will using either your physical superiority or the social pressure I have to not freak out which causes me to people please in the moment.
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She definitely wasn't mad or anything if anything Im pretty sure she liked it bc later she tried to take my water bottle away but I was easily able to get mine back so I don't think she was mad at all
[–]Orange11a -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly ignore these people over complicating things.
I used to do this to the guys who really pissed me off in hopes they would see how it feels to have someone take your stuff. The fact you easily got it back tends to be why guys never learn this very simple lesson. It's why I wish I'd just had the balls and lack of care to punch them in the dick and then collect my belongings from them while they're laying on the ground.
[–]rohankent 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mate, it’s not a high school movie scene. You want a romcom? Go watch the NoteBook.
[–]MisbegotenTarnished 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Meh, this is more for when you've already been with the person for a while and know each other well.
Exactly that's what I said
[–]luclme 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is the second time today I’ve written ‘I hate this sub sometimes’ on this sub
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same this reddit website is full of bitch ass white people
[–]The0rangeKind 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
where all the racism mods at?
[–]yourlittleman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Guess a 5'4 guy like me can't make a girl blush. :(((
[–]Old_Hunter_2364 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just put whatever you took from her behind your back and back up a little so she has to hug you to get it. I once dated a guy who was 5'5 and it worked. Just be playful.
[–]Flashinmoneyonurgirl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are plenty of other ways to make girls blush. One of my friends is 5ft2 but he's funny and he has a great personality so he has no problem getting girls. Height is only a plus. Personality matters much more
[–]Maymaywala 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah nah.
[–]SugarofRoses 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually, this is really cute IMO. I wouldn’t get angry if someone did this to me, but there definitely has to be a spark first.
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