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Zebrahead033 · 2022-04-08T15:38:07+00:00

You have to strike while the iron is hot.

Especially the more attractive the woman is. If you wait too long thinking you're being nice or respectful, blah blah blah, you're only increasing the likelihood that someone else will swoop in and make a move.

willgo-waggins · 2022-04-08T15:12:40+00:00

I think it's kinda stupid that we even allow this behavior, personally.

Anyway, there isn't some standardized set amount of time that things need to happen in. This is going to differ between people. Some will go faster or slower than others. You're probably going to end up with someone who was comfortable going the same speed as you. It would be exhausting and a pain in the ass trying to gauge every single person you come across just to increase your chances of getting with someone you might not be compatible with.

So fuck their windows. Just do what you feel. If they have a problem with it, then they're probably not for you.

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-04-08T19:59:33+00:00

I always get lazy and just not want to go out

Stujitsu2 · 2022-04-08T16:28:59+00:00

You can absolutely make a move too soon or wait too long.

opqjuag · 2022-04-08T20:10:11+00:00

This!!!!! I am a girl, and although I haven’t had a thousand partners or dates, I know for a fact that this is accurate. Does this go for men as well?

Artrock80 · 2022-04-09T02:20:41+00:00

This is true, and I've missed the window sooooo many times.

sienfiekdsa · 2022-04-09T03:45:35+00:00

Women are not a monolith. What works for Billy and Susan doesn’t work for Billy and Alisha. Or James and Alisha. Or Susan and Tommy. align with who you align with and stop acting like women are a video game with levels to get through

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-08T15:49:05+00:00

Don't ask for a date immediately, but don't wait too long either. Have a small conversation to show you're not an idiot/loser/creep, then ask her out. 5-10 messages max. Could also be same day, doesn't matter.

As for making moves, you 100% need to get at least a kiss-close at the end of the first date, if not a full-on f-close. Build comfort, yes, but also make a move before it's over. How she reacts to the kiss or your invite back to yours will tell you whether it will lead to an f-close too or whether you have to wait for the 2nd date for that.

caesarfecit · 2022-04-08T20:11:24+00:00

Women want to be desired. That's what they really crave from men. To feel special, important, valued. In respects, that's what we all want out of the opposite sex.

So if you're a guy who just so happens to stir a woman's interest and you dilly-dally, go super slow, give her nothing to react to, and generally waste her time, you're holding back the one thing she wants most from you, like a girl who acts super-prudish for some unknown reason.

And you wonder why women lose interest when guys let them go cold?

Now this has to be counterbalanced of course with a woman's need to feel safe with a guy and trust him before she gives herself over to his desire, but you get the point. You can't expect a woman to treat you like a priority if you treat her like an option.

In fact, I'm almost convinced that when women treat guys like options, they're copying the same behavior of guys who just weren't that into them.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-04-09T07:58:40+00:00

Between 6 and 10 msg you send.

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