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[–]Important-Quote9544 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Happens when there is low-medium interest
[–]Roman-ticks 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m aware it’s low interest but why not just tell people you’re flaking?
[–]DeceasedRodentFive 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Because that takes medium-high effort
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Underrated comment
[–]redditisforgeeks1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]idrinkapplejuice42 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was my normal experience. Most women aren't going to be straightforward with you. Get used to it.
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[–]Roman-ticks 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve tried day of dates and it hasn’t been super successful. I’ve got lucky a few times with day of dates but usually the girls are too late to respond
[–]Lakeyute 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Maybe change what you’re doing and start texting in between…
So many guys think that girls are perfectly fine meeting up with a stranger that starts off as deliberately emotionally distant. It’s not a winning strategy if the girl can find someone easily
[–]Roman-ticks 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah tbh I fucking hate texting in general and that may come off as cold to some girls? Idk
[–]VirtualMr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't like texting? Ask if she's busy and call bro
[–]Beautiful-Sunflower 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it seems as if your not that interested. Those girls might think your only trying to date for sex (if so just be upfront as well) if you don't keep up the conversation most women will let it drop unless you are truly who she's been looking for.
[–]GavinBrennan100 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah bro, they were just trying to see if they could with you. You were the equivalent of “dipping their toes in the water” typa deal. I’m not saying your ugly, I don’t even know what you look like, but this is the shit that happens a lot. Stay strong king mothafucka
[–]NineteenAD9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Online dating is the reason here.
Before you match with any woman, she's already entertaining several men, and you're going to get lost in the shuffle if you aren't better looking than her top choices. Shit happens.
Texting for logistics only in the beginning is still the correct move.
[–]daddysgotanew -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The life of a non Chad
[–]Roman-ticks 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty sure this is normal in online dating for everyone
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's easier to just ghost someone, rather than making some fake explanations and facing unconvenient reaction. You should make the girl eager to get to know you, if they are turning down your invitations eventually that usually means that your connection and attractiveness is too shallow to make an effort for them to go on a meeting with stranger.
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