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Important-Quote9544 · 2022-02-10T21:28:28+00:00

It means: give me your validation and attention but you don't get to hangout with me. Seriously, if she was interested and serious on meeting up. She would have met up with you by now. Don't waste anymore time playing her games.

OnlyOnceThreetimes · 2022-02-11T00:25:08+00:00

It's a "shit test". The exact proper way to deal with this is "I'm busy too, but if you want to go out for a drink on Friday night, I know a great spot for cocktails. Let me know".

If she denies, move on. It's lose lose and she just wants to treat you like the next sucker to give her validation. If she does give you the date, you've demonstrated low value anyways.

High value men don't beg.

beantts · 2022-02-10T23:03:44+00:00

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reversedbydark · 2022-02-11T01:37:10+00:00

Other people have explained what it really means so I'm just gonna write up how I'd respond:

'Why don't we compromise hang out over a drink and have some fun?...Cos you know, I'm a busy guy to. :)'

Never ever invite girls for coffee during the day...WHY?! Cos it gives you less (and by less I mean close to none) opportunities to make a romantic move.

Don't be a simp and give away your power just cos she's hot...with girls respect is tied to attraction...if you act like a fanboy she will 100% loose respect and you will never 'get it'. Same goes for other girls as well.

Understand what I'm saying bud?

123kdd100 · 2022-02-11T01:12:27+00:00

It's probably a shit test not a rejection. High value men aren't so sensitive and quick to react. That being said, I would agree definitely don't give her any more validation, be more dry with her until she is putting in a lot more effort. Don't completely cancel her out but also you should already be talking to other women anyway, spending time and energy on one single girl is a big no-no in my opinion and it's definitely not the most ideal method

vze1fm8gn · 2022-02-11T01:55:31+00:00

You are allowed to be a source of free validation and attention whenever she is free from her important things in life.

ksmith11011 · 2022-02-11T02:41:52+00:00

Girls who can’t flirt try to be coy that’s all they know how to do. Instead of being creative she’s just putting you on the spot over and over.

I’m pretty sure she’s 100% interested but this sounds annoying. I’d play along “how do I do that?” See what she says

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-11T03:33:46+00:00

Say: “Nah, i prefer women who are 100% keen, nice to meet you though”

Some girls may think that is flirting but it’s your job to teach them that if they truly are into a guy that is just not how they should flirt if they want a chance with him. If they want a chance with you, they must take it immediately before the offer is gone. Period.

brucenasty · 2022-02-10T22:53:52+00:00

not worth your time

mjornir · 2022-02-11T01:09:11+00:00

Don’t bother. Flip it on its head, make her think she has to convince you instead. Just ignore her

PondScum420 · 2022-02-10T23:35:21+00:00

Depends how much you want it. Some people you do have to chase a little, they are busy and have options so you have to make yourself stand out. I don’t always have the time or energy to do all that, but it can work if you do.

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