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letsgetrandy · 2022-01-16T17:41:13+00:00

You're trying too hard.

If someone says "entertain me", say something like, "Oh... I've got a GREAT story that will keep you in suspense!" Then don't say anything else. If she asks what it is say, "I'll tell you later."

And for the love of god, don't ever try to manipulate some compliment out of a person by saying "why do you hate me?" That entire second dialog was low self-esteem cringe.

BagEmpty6931 · 2022-01-16T17:44:55+00:00

Maybe:

Her: I'm so bored please entertain me.

Me: Come over to my house, well eat something and listen to the music.

Idea: entertaining over text leads nowhere.

WolfKina · 2022-01-16T18:34:29+00:00

As someone said, you are being a try hard. Give it a couple o days off, see if she comes talk to you. If she comes, great, you know she's chasing you. If she don't, no harm done, you will still be in the same situation, and can restart the conversation on another topic.

Anyway, the more important thing is to not put much effort right now if she is not reciprocating.

Reichka · 2022-01-16T17:57:27+00:00

Are you a dog? You do tricks on command?

TempAcc64 · 2022-01-16T19:08:29+00:00

Move on.

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2022-01-16T19:08:49+00:00

Using ur instead of you're is fucked

Anarelion · 2022-01-16T17:31:21+00:00

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grzechoo177 · 2022-01-16T18:55:58+00:00

No offence bruh, but unless she’s a very specific person this seems to me like she’s only answering you to not be rude. Obviously it’s only based on a few messagea so i could be completely wrong, but trying to make her say that she likes you… It just seems for me like she was trying to find polite way to not say it.

Plus the phrase ‘entertain me’… I mean in most cases i would find that a bit rude, it shows that she doesn’t feel like you are in the same league. Apart from some kind of inside jokes, i can’t even think of a single situation or person that i could tell that phrase and not seem rude or distant. Seems like she’s looking down on you (she’s the pretty lady who just happen to not have anything better to do than texting you, so you owe her just for even talking to you).

I don’t have a advice, because as i said it’s just a few messages, but i would consider that she’s not that into you bro. Either way good luck on that one and never sell yourself short. No matter who she is, if she thinks she’s better than you then she’s not worth your time.

AnAngelOfVengeance · 2022-01-16T19:14:53+00:00

yeah, you are trying too hard to set a screening frame, this is a big mistake lots of intermediate gamers make. ‘I’m gonna make her prove herself to ME, I’m the prize’. It doesn’t work. Actually the best way to do that is to just to be nice to them, the thing a popular, socially well adjusted guy would do to anyone they didn’t really like. Aka curving. Same thing with saying ‘you do you’…it sounds too much like you are trying to be the prize, like you are more likely than her to next them first. You actually want that to be the case, but it has to be ultra subtle, so subtle that the best way to show that is again, to just be nice to them. It gets communicated by other things, like how you take longer to reply than her, how you write less words than her, how you never try to prove yourself, etc… that shows you are the prize, and then you just kinda be nice and qualify her from there. As you become advanced, you will find yourself actually becoming more and more like the ‘nice guys’. As you’re game gets tight, it’s like you are celebrity…celebrities are usually nice to everyone simply bc they are so certain in their status that even if some random Joe tried to ‘next’ them first, they would allow it bc they know they are really nexting themselves. They’d be nice and say ‘I hope you have a great day’. And that would cut worse than any other comeback.

axe122 · 2022-01-16T19:23:21+00:00

Your not really challenging her or putting her on the spot to respond to something you said.
Shes more the one challenging you and your tryna twist it into wit but your not pushing her back enpugh.

Arif_Xawad · 2022-01-16T19:31:38+00:00

Ah shit i Couldn't read it got removed :/

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