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Rambo-Redcorn · 2021-09-28T03:04:34+00:00

Completely right, first impressions will always be appearance. Start with a shower and maybe some shampoo

Goulronk · 2021-09-28T10:50:23+00:00

Yea it's very clear that appearance is key.

Only issue is there are some men who just aren't very good looking and it kinda seals the deal for us ever having a chance due to appearance being so prevalent.

Sovereign1ne · 2021-09-28T19:05:12+00:00

Say it again for the people in the back!!

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-28T05:20:36+00:00

I think guys take the "looks don't matter as much" line a bit too far. It doesn't mean dress like a slob, be balding but keep the horseshoe, and don't try to stay in shape. It means do the best with what you go. If you show that you treat yourself and your body with respect, that you dress and maintain your hair, nails, body hair, ear and nose hair like you actually take pride on yourself you can get away with much more than a woman of your equal looks rating.

earsurgery9 · 2021-09-28T07:40:16+00:00

it's so funny to me that this is even a contentious issue (yet you're right and I see people claiming 'girls don't care about looks and aren't attracted visually' all the time on this sub lol)

It's just a narrative that is very important to people marketing PUA advice as without people believing this narrative, the community (and their bank balances) are in trouble!!

Anyone with sisters or good looking friends knows exactly how much girls are attracted by 'looks' and how 'visual' they actually are lol (hint: they're the same as us)

Almost all topics on this sub could be boiled down too - get as good looking (attractive) as possible, and approach girls! Direct. Indirect. It doesn't matter. There's no rules. There's no 'skill' (unless you consider not being super weird a skill. E.g a girl who isn't attracted isn't gonna suddenly wanna bang you because you used some negs or dhv stories or pushpull lines etc lmao). It's a numbers game. Find out if she thinks you're hot. If she does, escalate. If she's not interested, there's nothing you can say to 'change her mind' (that would be like trying to change someones mind when they tell you that they are hungry lol) so move on

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-09-28T06:02:04+00:00

Who says it doesn’t? Might as well do everything you can to look as attractive as possible to your desired audience

Risk__Creepy · 2021-09-28T11:41:19+00:00

Hygiene and style are more important than physique.

unpopularperiwinkle · 2021-09-28T11:57:25+00:00

No shit Sherlock

WaterIsWetBot · 2021-09-28T03:29:41+00:00

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AelfredRex · 2021-09-28T13:38:30+00:00

Over-groom and they'll question your sexuality. As long as you don't stink, your breath doesn't make them cringe, and you don't have a brush sticking out your nose or ears, you'll be fine.

2021-09-28T20:46:03+00:00

Try a few aesthetics. I have a cowboy aesthetic going right now and it kinda works

AnnoKano · 2021-09-28T21:17:19+00:00

Appearance matters, but wallowing in self pity or anxiety over your appearance is also terrible.

Perhaps a golden mean between acceptance of ones appearance and regular showers exists.

Short-Translator-728 · 2021-10-01T22:58:03+00:00

Appearance is really all that matters in my experience.

2200+ approaches and not even a single number.

This is with perfect hygiene, wearing nice cologne, 4+ years in the gym, A+ social skills, and tons of accolades and interesting things to talk about.

Nothing. Zip. Nada.

If you can't even get your foot in the door, personality will never make a difference.

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