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[β]Usease 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Being able to not give a fuck.
[β]MeaningImmediate5486 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
βNot giving a fuckβ is hard when you feel lonely. Letβs repress our emotions and act like weβre okay
[β]Throwaway902ve 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hard one. I think finding something in life that you give much more of a fuck about than women really helps. Big goals/dreams etc
That and lots of rejection
[β]Algo2Pete 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I got this one down.
[β]jupybacardi 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I suck at texting, I wish to improve on that. I have no issues with talking face-to-face though lol.
[β]ProfessorZoom80 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why? U dont have to text women too much, no free attentions Be direct
[β]jupybacardi 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Great point. But in my experience shy women seem to prefer texting first to build a certain level of comfort.
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
For me I just always blow it over text. Iβve always hated texting and I feel like thereβs just nothing to talk about
[β]jupybacardi 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thatβs me. I canβt seem to talk about anything through text, it doesnβt feel genuine to me at allβ¦ so my workaround is Iβll just reply a lot slower/later.
[β][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. I spread it out. Still though, text is often where I fuck things up
[β]blashcr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry if this sounds ignorant, but wouldnβt u just text the same way you talk irl?
[β]Brandonva804 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I suck at texting. Group approaches. and I have anxiety sometimes. Honestly I would like to overcome approach Anxiety.
[β]Alive-Doughnut2345 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My career prospects and overall skills. Not having any direction is a mad blow to the confidence
[β]ricebucket1 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being able to give a fuck.
[β]SDdude81 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I need to get better in attracting women so I get dates not make friends.
[β]ANewOriginalUsername 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My looks, have always been on the slim/toned side but want to start putting on a bit more mass
[β]boycott-mondays 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How to be more funny, and witty
I'm awful and very awkward with conversation.
I'll talk to any woman, I have no issue in approaching women. I just get awkward with conversation, and I come off rude to quickly
[β]willgo-waggins 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that sometimes I roll as the βnice guyβ a little too much and I need to work in being somewhat more aggressive selectively.
Not asshat obnoxious, but get i. There early and seal the deal without wasting time type of thing.
Iβve missed any number of opportunities in life by waiting too ling and not closing out.
[β]JiggabooJohnny 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Value myself more
[β]gbizzle2 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dealing with women who are angry at me because i wont smash
[β]SexualGoodGirl 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why not smash π
[β]gbizzle2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because she has bad behavior
[β]agaren 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Social anxiety. Stops me from talking to people in general. It fuckin sucks because Iβm an extrovert deep down. I wish to turn off the part of my brain that worries.
[β]Old_Pattern_2595 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My entire body, having a ugly face and super hairy body and a small dick is a death sentence for me πππππ
[β]TheMorningJoe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Caring, I hate that I care too much. My heart sucks. Lol
[β]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Height.
[β]goflyakitemom 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stoppppppp being so shy. It takes me forever to warm up to people and I'm so much fun when I do!
[β]legomasterpiece 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The ability to believe in myself and not care how people perceive me because I'm not a bad person.
(I have a hard time standing up for myself)
[β]Throwaway902ve 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was a big issue for me. Gotta realise that if you don't stand up for yourself no one else will unfortunately. :(
[β]sunnyimmelting 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To live more intentionally.
[β]burncushlikewood 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Getting the timing down when to make a move, and date game, I'm good in the night game situation but I struggle on getting bangs on dates. Sometimes I'm too aggressive and she flakes, then sometimes I'm not aggressive enough and she flakes
relatable bro
[β]Comfortable-Ad7245 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Height
[β]jgrasso22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I need to work on being able to just approach someone and talk to them. I'm finally at a place where I'm much more confident in my looks and just as a person in general, but I have no clue about approaching a random girl I'm attracted to and just striking up a conversation. And I guess actually doing it is the only real way to improve but it's so intimidating haha.
[β]BoredRedhead24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no concept of tact
[β]IamtheDanr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not being autistic lol
[β]StatisticianSilly57 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can overthink and freeze whenever I see someone attractive. And then later regret for not being able to make some conversation. Itβs like I judge my own self in real time. I wish to stop doing that.
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[β]jupybacardi 23 points24 points25 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[β]ProfessorZoom80 6 points7 points8 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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[β]Brandonva804 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]Alive-Doughnut2345 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]ricebucket1 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]SDdude81 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]ANewOriginalUsername 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]boycott-mondays 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]willgo-waggins 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]JiggabooJohnny 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]gbizzle2 5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[β]SexualGoodGirl 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[β]gbizzle2 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]agaren 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]Old_Pattern_2595 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]TheMorningJoe 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]goflyakitemom 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]legomasterpiece 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[β]Throwaway902ve 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]sunnyimmelting 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]burncushlikewood 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[β]Throwaway902ve 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]Comfortable-Ad7245 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]jgrasso22 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]BoredRedhead24 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]IamtheDanr 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]StatisticianSilly57 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link