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[–]TheSunshineMan 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Flirty eyes, flirty touching, flirty conversation.
[–]dneieqsx 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I feel extremely awkward touching someone if I don’t know if they are interested in me or not. Any examples of flirty things I could say ?
[–]greyman0425 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are a female, he is a greater danger too you. You are not a danger to him. Getting in close and a sly touch or bump won't threaten him 9 times out 10. He will be over the moon, not freaked out.
Start with small talk, then hit him with a compliment or two. Some light teasing or innuendo when you are feeling more daring.
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not what you say.. it's how you say it.
If you're trying to fuck.. as the guy if he lives alone.
[–]dneieqsx 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t want to just fuck him I wanna go on cute dates with him AND fuck him
[–]dneieqsx 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I suck so bad at being flirty.
My crush: “ If that’s too heavy for you to move just let me know “ Me: “It’s always too heavy “ My crush: starts laughing his ass off
that is the best I can do lol
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[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Was that him trying to flirt with me?
[–]CoffinEluder 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think you did well there. He on the other hand……
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol was his response stupid?
[–]CoffinEluder 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ohhh nooo.. of course not! He just simply laughed it off because he was just (if not more) nervous than you were haha. In my eyes, you gave him the ball - he just fumbled it. I’m sure he’ll do better the next time though
[–]Mayin_ -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
No that's him offering help then laughing at you.
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why would he be laughing at me? After offering help?
[–]Angelio72 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
laughing is something i overdo when i feel nervous.
I figured he was just nervous but I don’t know why he’s nervous unless he likes me lol
[–]Angelio72 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well i mean there is always a level on nervous when somebody his flirting :)
OH thats my test if a girl is loughing at my stupid jokes iknow she is in to me haha
[–]Mayin_ -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know. Probably because you said something that seemed funny to him.
[–]mikeamendola2236 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a guy is extra helpful he’s in to you.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially touch
[–]Steakman1 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Honestly just complimenting things that are masculine is a good start. Things like strength, good with his hands, confident, etc. Generally as a guy you won’t hear these sorts of things from a woman unless she’s attracted to you.
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[–]Steakman1 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“I wonder if you could carry a patient by yourself with those arms.”
“I’ve never told anyone this before, but I really like a man in scrubs.” If he says something along the lines of “really? scrubs don’t look that good,” then respond “well maybe it’s just you then.”
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg you’re a genius thank you !
[–]Pychebabe44 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Match their energy, be honest with what you're thinking about them at that moment no matter how hot and bothered it might sound coming out of your mouth. However, remember you don't want to just seem like a sex object soo try to mix and humour in with their to. Over time it just becomes natural!
Thank you:)
[–]somenytoi 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Eye contact and touching are go to , as well as body language, smiling and laughing are great too.
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
body language how?
[–]somenytoi 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
depends but usually I relax to let them know they're getting my undivided attention
[–]dneieqsx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I always get soo nervous when I talk to him it’s hard to relax
[–]somenytoi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Eye contact , blinking ... guys will be caught
[–]dneieqsx -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I always make strong eye contact with him but I feel like it’s not enough
[–]somenytoi 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smile and try being close , say his name like your having sex with him ... find something to talk about as well.
[–]Shortyrawk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t cross your arms and keep your feet pointed toward him.
[–]Eva4ever28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You want to lean in toward them…now like right by them. You kind of want to seem like you don’t care at all but like your body should be leaning that way. Touch yourself a lot.. like your hair and waist and just be loving yourself and they’ll wish they had some of that.
[–]randomcritical 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
do the laugh and slap. its gets me all the time when i make a joke and the girls laugh and softly slap my arm, and truthfully after years of trying to figure things out as a guy the best way to find out is if a woman touches you like that.
[–]Allisonwheels 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was always my go-to move. Works.
[–]Papa_Musk 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dress well and work out and just talk to whatever dude you might like, flirting is like teasing a good friend, you tell them you like them then that you don't like them repeat, go out and have fun and meet a bunch of guys
Im a cute girl, Im in shape and I dress well, Im just shy and was looking for more specific things I can do
[–]Angelio72 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love when girls laugh and touch my arms.
I always laugh at his dumb jokes but I’m always standing too far away to touch him😭
[–]PompousSchmuck 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
One chick got hurt in her leg, so she put hers on mine, basically had me massage it and told me it felt good, and aliviated the pain.
A different one remembered things I said a few days ago to the letter and asks me questions, and is more around me than ever before.
Another one sent me mesages on social media
A different one went for a light stomach touch (I'm somewhat in shape, about 14-15% bf)
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I guess it’s hard for me to flirt normally because it’s someone I work with. It’s hard to do any of that when we work in a faced paced environment and I’m always standing at least up to 10 feet from him 😭. Touching is my go-to flirty move but how can I touch him while working ?? you know . It’s not the same as casually hanging out with someone
[–]PompousSchmuck 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you not have lunch breaks? Come to him when he eats, break the physical barrier there.
"Oh you've got to try this bs food i made for an excuse to touch you" touch him Maybe will need a few of these moves.
[–]Eva4ever28 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it’s someone you work with laugh anytime they are mildly funny, smile a lot and ask them for help as much as possible and then compliment them for whatever they do.
[–]PatientAssociation62 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm a good looking dude and I get hit on fairly often by women. I would suggest actually going up and having a friendly, short conversation with a dude you like. That shows interest without being creepy or lame. Just talk about things you like, what's on your mind, ask him a few questions about himself.
We do talk! So i feel like it’s not enough
[–]Animetingz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Ok first thing, being able to approach a guy and hold Eye contact, in our eyes (a guys eyes) that's already flirting. Now what I would say is, that in that situation, if a guy does approach you because you are giving him those signals, you have to remember, he's just a nervous as you are. With that said just because he says something weird or awkward doesn't mean that's what he really meant. Remember he's putting himself out there, just like you are. And when you are nervous, believe me, he is too. So take it easy on him. At least he had to confidence to come up and talk to you. Now in regards to the guy at work. I need a little more context to help, so my question to you is, have you talked to this guy already??
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Yes we make small talk every time we see each other or have a chance too. I opened up to him about my childhood once too and he was very sweet about it
[–]Animetingz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
When you all talk had he ever done anything to give you the idea that he may be interested??
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Not that I can think of.. But maybe it’s because we are always around other people or he doesn’t wanna come off as weird ?? I don’t know. Or he just isn’t interested lol.
[–]Animetingz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Does he have a girlfriend??
I haven’t asked
[–]greyman0425 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to ask that question to determine availability. And it signals someone is interested, you or you are asking for a friend.
He always winks at me, makes strong eye contact with me, waves to me from down the hall, and nice stuff like that. Not sure if he’s into me or just being friendly
[–]randomcritical 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl kf he does that theres about a 89% percent chance hes noticed you at the very least. Now there could be a small chance that he friendzoned you but to be honest with you that doesnt mean nearly as mich as it does when a woman friendzones a guy.
Not that I can think of.. But maybe it’s because we are always around other people or he doesn’t wanna come off as weird ?? I don’t know. Or he just isn’t interested lol. He offered to move heavy stuff for me if that counts lol
[–]3dm0nt0n1an1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I feel like you need an office party/get together or an after work drink get together with a few people so you can spend time together outside of work and see where it goes.
[–]Shirovkap -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You work together? Don’t shit where you eat.
I don’t care
[–]rs-tk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eye contact and smile
[–]MmmNeapolitan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm able to pick up on touching the easiest. It definitely stands out and makes it obvious that a woman is interested
[–]TheCinnamonBoi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just act interested
[–]dneieqsx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That isn’t really helpful. Very vague
[–]TheCinnamonBoi 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ask questions about them. Continue the conversation. Laugh at their jokes and give them compliments
I do all of that but I feel like it’s not obvious enough
[–]buckles4077 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
A** pinches are underrated, I love it when girls pinch me. not the best idea at work though.
[–]dneieqsx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I don’t want to make him uncomfy lmaoo I wanted to do something more subtle lol
[–]buckles4077 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe Winking?
[–]dneieqsx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He winks at me every day which is cute but I look stupid when I wink haha
[–]buckles4077 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe you could leave sticky notes with cute messages on his lunch?
[–]Ohhhwordddd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Complements and flirty eyes
[–]strikerx07 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Frequent eye contact and smile at him. Make physical contact with him if you are close enough to each other, like if you are sitting let your thigh casually meet his'.
If he gets it he should make a move at some point, if he doesn't and you are still interested maybe just ask him out
[–]strikerx07 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also if you work with him he might me scared or cautious of the possibility of loosing his job if things don't work out.
So you should try and get him to hang out outside of work.
[–]strikerx07 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also gives you a chance to wear nicer clothes when around him specifically.
[–]heftyearth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You say you talk to him so why don’t you ask him out? If he said he liked X say something like this weekend I went to —- with great X. We should go, something like that and see how he reacts
I pretty much just smile a lot and bat my eyes. A little lip bite if you can pull it off. You kinda gotta make yourself feel turned on to make it authentic. You can touch their arm and stuff, too. Compliment them…
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How do I know if she’s flirting w me? SHE EXISTS
What do you mean lol
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean if I like a gal, and she’s there, she doesn’t have to turn on her flirting v12 biturbo engine..
I’d approach, talk and frame everything as a flirt from her side.. the only thing she has to do is participating and play honest..
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If your a girl all you gotta do is giggle at everything he says especially when it’s not funny
I feel like that isn’t obvious enough
[–]SirFemto 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My girl, prior to our relationship flirted with me with memes and I got the gist of it cuz I was able to match the energy
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