How do you deal with the "let's just be friends" bullshit?

dking168 · 2015-01-27T04:00:40+00:00

Someone posted a solution. "Thanks for the offer, but I have enough friends."

itsmevichet · 2015-01-27T15:09:09+00:00

I usually just use the "I have enough friends" line and move on.

People who feel the need to have the last word tend to have a lot of these types of problems, because of their need to have the last word.

These kinds of "solutions" that everyone posts about the friendzone are, to me, the epitome of butt hurt "I'll show them what's what" mindsets.

Stop caring so much. A girl has a right to not be into you. You only hurt your own game by getting mad about that.

Seriously. Think about it. If a random girl saw you having this conversation about how much "bullshit" it is that a girl is not into you, do you think she would touch you with a 10 foot pole? Fuck no. Because people who get dramatic about the friendzone are goddamn tedious.

Just let it go. That's how you deal with it. A girl is not interested, whatever. That shit literally affects your life ZERO percent.

jamesc1071 · 2015-01-27T11:43:33+00:00

"Let's just be friends" is not a request to be friends.

gexxx007 · 2015-01-27T15:53:30+00:00

"How about you give me a friendly blowjob?".

Unibros · 2015-01-27T03:55:04+00:00

Be her friend and use that friendship to meet more of her friends. Being friend-zoned/friend-zoning someone is a very powerful networking opportunity that a lot of people see as a negative. In reality, the friend-zone can be used effectively to meet more women you may have never had the chance to meet in the first place.

brocklanders3791 · 2015-01-27T07:48:51+00:00

that line is a fence women put up so see if you can jump it.

alphabytes · 2015-01-27T13:00:30+00:00

Lets just be friends is a scam... Stay out of it...

zomgitsduke · 2015-01-27T19:20:35+00:00

These two suggestions have already been posted but those are the ones I take:

Reject her friendship. "I appreciate the offer of friendship, but I'd rather not be"
Be her friend, meet her friends. I only suggest this if she's a quality girl and has hobbies that include quality women.

skahler · 2015-01-27T17:35:45+00:00

You let yourself be friends before she asked to "be friends", guaranteed. Never let yourself get to that point. That's how you deal with it.

Chaosadnd · 2015-01-27T16:41:51+00:00

I read somewhere on this sub recently a good answer to this is " I have plenty of friends, I was attempting to be closer with you."

cuppajoe123 · 2015-01-27T08:16:36+00:00

"not interested, sorry"

Lakerman · 2015-01-27T10:22:45+00:00

I'm going with fuck you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTZ65SbocSo

not that it ever happened.

One of the methodology of getting women is noticing much before that issue arrives if she is into it.

Title	How do you deal with the "let's just be friends" bullshit?
Author	screwthe
Upvotes	13
Comments	25
Date	January 27, 2015 3:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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