Is it socially acceptable to chat up a girl at her job? [recovered]

PeperoParty · 2019-01-08T22:23:34+00:00

Yes, it is. You always have to be weary of on the job girls/guys trying to get you to spend more money but there definitely are people on the job who would love to be asked out.

IrvineKafka · 2019-01-08T23:49:57+00:00

1) Who cares if it is 'socially acceptable'?

2) See number 1.

hydrolith · 2019-01-08T22:24:12+00:00

I can remember reading somewhere in the book, THE GAME, which was my formal introduction to all of this stuff, that hitting on girls wasn't "fair game" because they are taught to be nice to customers at work therefore you won't be able to get a real gauge on whether they are actually interested in you or just being nice to you because they're at work. That being said, I've talked to a lot of women I've been attracted to while they were at work and even gotten numbers and made plans. That being said I think I do too much of that actually and it's not something I want to do unless I feel it's really right.

natephant · 2019-01-09T00:00:03+00:00

It’s fine, just be mindful.

What is the job?

Are you putting this girl in an awkward situation?

Are you misinterpreting ‘service and courtesy’ as signals?

Is this you’re first time interacting with this person?

Are you at a strip club?

All important things to be mindful of.

My all means chat up girls, but if you’re talking to a waitress or bartender... definitely don’t ask her out after 1 conversation. It’s probably not gonna work, and you’ve also significantly ruined your chances at that location.

If you happen to be in a business you know you’re never probably going to return to... sure go ahead.

tobyTNA · 2019-01-09T03:03:04+00:00

It is, remember people on the job are still people - the key is DON'T talk about anything relates to her job, but something personal like, "are you from here?", "nice shirt by the way, I like how it fits with your hair", "My name is ____, nice to meet you, are you from here?" something along those lines and get her contact as soon as the set hooks because you won't know if she's busy or what not.

WildinCuzImYoung · 2019-01-09T00:34:57+00:00

Here's an idea if you end up hitting her up -

Just have a normal conversation with her about what ever bullshit. If she stays and doesn't show she is super busy then give her that complement and lead into phone number because your doing x cool thing in your spare time and she is x quality so she qualifies to your standards and there for you want her to join you (date set up). She will either say no where you move on like its nothing and if you see her next time you act normal like you have moved on or there in another girl you are perusing. Or she is down, gives her number and then you really work her when she is not busy at work. Solved.

noprideinsomniac95 · 2019-01-09T02:55:50+00:00

It's always risky doing that with someone at their job. It can work, but I'd advise you to be more cautious than if it were at a more social event like a bar or a party.

whatyouseeisit · 2019-01-08T23:29:04+00:00

We hate it. We are not in the mood. We feel ugly. please kindly wait for later.

TeapotTheDog · 2019-01-08T23:04:25+00:00

As a guy that has been hit on while at work. It's great, amazing confidence boost. Nothing may happen, but as long as you don't go super overboard, worst case scenario you make them feel good about themselves.

muff_marauder · 2019-01-08T22:00:30+00:00

I don't recommend it.

Guys don't like being hit on at the gym, girls don't like being hit on at work.

ramokaly · 2019-01-08T22:46:48+00:00

I practice on them. It puts me in the zone and increases my confidence. This alone is a great momentum that you can use on other “real” girls.

Title	Is it socially acceptable to chat up a girl at her job? [recovered]
Author	seaquit [recovered]
Upvotes	2
Comments	38
Date	January 8, 2019 9:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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