How to deal with women saying "That guy over there seems hotter/smarter/funnier/etc..."

chocolateegg1233 · 2021-01-03T14:23:59+00:00

This is funny, i'm 7 years in the community and i never get this type of response

Tell her "You're right, go get his number"

You don't give a fuck, you're a man

earsurgery9 · 2021-01-03T15:33:52+00:00

The idea is that it's a 'shit test' and you need to 'agree and amplify'. Like ''Yeah, I know, he's super handsome. You should ask him out'

But the problem with any of this 'game' stuff is that it only really works when she's actually attracted/into you lol

I remember meeting a girl in a bar once. It seemed to be going OK to the point she was engaged and we were chatting etc. She then remarked on how handsome the barman was and kept looking at him and I laughed and was like ''Yeah, he's dreamy! Want me to ask him ouyt for you? :)''. Anyway, later that night after she'd basically made it clear she wasn't into me (sexually) she slipped the barman her number! haha

NoTime6352 · 2021-01-03T22:48:32+00:00

Tell her to date him then...

If she's more keen on someone else, that would not really be your loss. Only genuine connection would be a loss. These women sound like straight up bitches if you ask me. I would never say that if a guy approached me. Even when not interested there is no need to put others down or make them insecure or anything. Just plain rude.

TheDarknessGoat · 2021-01-03T18:06:40+00:00

It gets to a point where It isn't a shit test, It is Just shit. Point out to a hotter women and fuck her instead

lovesports2100 · 2021-01-03T18:32:07+00:00

Tell her there is always someone who is hotter , smarter and funnier :D

MisterShogunate · 2021-01-04T05:30:33+00:00

Any thing she says is material for you to make a clever funny comeback or bullshit around. If they bullshit around, it's just means you get to bullshit too.

You can go weird

GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Yeah he's definitely attractive, but does he take in the butt?"

You can be mean

GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Oh shit you're right, he's like the wish version of Ryan Reynolds. Still hot though."

You can be just a fucking douchebag to her all together

GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Really? What about that guy?" GIRL: "Eew no." ME: (Looks at her) "You ain't a prize." GIRL: "OMg blab bla bla" ME: I'm kidding, we both know you look like a celebrity... after their they are famous and washed up that is.

Just have fun with it. You have to really be in the fun mood to roll with it otherwise you'll just look like a dick. If she gets offended who gives a fuck at least you get to have more fun when dealing with these types of girls.

winning2323 · 2021-01-04T15:02:00+00:00

Change the subject?

kettlebell_workout · 2021-01-03T15:04:04+00:00

It is definitely a shit test. To see how you will handle jealousy.

The worst thing you can do is to start comparing yourself with him "I am smart as well".

Agreeing with this also is not the best option, cause if you agree, then why she should be with you, and not with that other guy? You will shoot yourself in a foot.

I would go along with her game and say:

"Wow. I would have never taken you as a threesome person. Are you for real?"

I mean if she likes you, and she likes that other guy. Then this is the only logical conclusion you can make.

Either she denies. Or she will play along. In both cases, you will win.

jaredhasarrived · 2021-01-03T13:25:36+00:00

give them a dose of their own medicine

MistahUndaCova001 · 2021-01-03T15:28:10+00:00

"There's one thing I have over him. I have more inches than him." One second after saying that to her, use your hand to gesture that you're talking about your height. Give her a smirk

"..And you're definitely into tall guys like me"

albertarms · 2021-01-04T13:06:43+00:00

"Ill wait here till he comes and talks to you"

Create a silence for a couple seconds until she realized how she screwed up, then as her face changes from the awkwarness procced to change subject as if nothing happened

I did this once, it was my natural playful response, but i was pissed as u can tell. It worked wonders tho

caesarfecit · 2021-01-04T16:35:16+00:00

If she's saying it in an obviously flirtatious way, agree and amplify.

If she's doing it to troll, ditch her. If she's doing that shit early on over nothing, she'll def do it again when you're invested and playing for keeps.

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-01-04T19:40:38+00:00

"Really. That's interesting because just I had the same conversation with my Mom and she completely disagrees with you." Cut the thread, talk about something else, "By the way..."

Say this in a playful self amusement way as if you're not serious and don't care what her reaction is, cut the thread, talk about something else.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2021-01-05T06:45:43+00:00

Basically don’t give a fuck about those kinds of comments. Agree and amplify - “yeah he looks hot, you should grab his number. Actually, how about that guy with the sweater vest? He looks more your type”. “Hey sweater vest guy come over here I want you to meet someone...”

Walk her around the bar and try to set her up with dorky guys for a while until she gets the point that you don’t care about her little comments that are supposed to make you jealous.

2021-01-15T03:34:25+00:00

Avoid these types of women. Playing games is not only immature but insensitive and rude.

richlad · 2021-01-16T09:58:21+00:00

Tell her "lemme see"

And take a good look at the guy.

Sit back and relax.

Ask the girl to "stand up" in stern voice and with fire in your eyes

When she stands up.

Command her "You are right, go get his number"

After that leave the table and tell the waiter the bill is on her.

This way you are controling her action and you become Alfa Mofo

Title	How to deal with women saying "That guy over there seems hotter/smarter/funnier/etc..."
Author	timei5ticking
Upvotes	15
Comments	32
Date	January 3, 2021 1:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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