Do bio's even matter in online dating?

howcansheslap6969 · 2018-08-16T09:34:19+00:00

Photos get the hook.

Bios for the reel in.

Text game to get them out the water.

lockaway · 2018-08-16T08:46:49+00:00

If you have the right bio, it is never going to subtract points, so why not have one?

eleminionur · 2018-08-16T11:23:38+00:00

Most important thing is face by a country mile.

A good bio will never harm, though. But tinder is 100% about looks so a good bio doesn't mean anything if she thinks you're ugly. But an interesting bio is good if she's 'on the fence' about your looks. It could be enough to get her to swipe right

And if you're super handsome, don't bother with a bio. You get matches and dates on face alone

scaredtodeath235 · 2018-08-16T11:44:34+00:00

Yes, women want to read a bio. Personality, is more important, but a good bio will catch a readers eye.

lady-brett_ashley · 2018-08-16T14:26:56+00:00

I’d see through that shit instantly. Intellect isn’t easily faked.

Sure if your super smart with a undergrad degree you can fake it to an extent. But I legit ask tons of questions about people’s careers because I’m successful and genuinely interested. So I’m gonna figure it out lol.

Red flags go off. I suggest if you want to come across smart but don’t want to answer questions say vague things like I work in intelligence or for the government. You can’t outright say you work for the CIA but you can let her infer it lol.

Doctors while they have money are their own breed. Not attractive to me in even the slightest. I go for lawyers and people with law degrees (not everyone practices law) but again not easily faked.

If your going for dumb chicks then it might work but for women who are educated it isn’t likely to be successful unless you are working with sluts hence the nudes.

E_Anonymous · 2018-08-16T18:54:20+00:00

Yes it’s easier for either person to initiate a conversation if they have an interesting bio. Otherwise your shooting in the dark.

LimitedContributor · 2018-08-17T02:07:21+00:00

They make your profile livelier, I would definitely suggest. Just put down your interests.

lady-brett_ashley · 2018-08-16T11:07:19+00:00

Absolutely must have a bio. Most women will not swipe on just photos (some will but not quality ones).

There is a lot of info online about how to build an attractive profile. Women will use this profile to keep conversation moving and understand how to relate to you. That will make your life significantly easier when it comes to getting a date or a few and subsequently sleeping with them. Unless you are going for easy chicks and want to catch an STD lol. I wouldn’t trust a girl who swiped on a guy with no bio. Means she doesn’t have very high standards unless it was an accidental swipe (this does happen).

Usually I will swipe on looks and occasionally bio. Once I’ve swiped and we are a match or later I get a match then I read the bio. If there isn’t a bio then I typically unmatch. Ain’t nobody got time for people who don’t put efforts into their profile.

Look at it this way: If someone can’t take the time to be bothered to write a bio then how good do you think they are in bed. Being good in bed requires effort and patience. Lack of bio signals you have neither.

xxMidnightAssassinxx · 2018-08-16T12:17:42+00:00

Pictures draw them in, but if you won’t take the time to fill out a bio what makes me think you will put time into a relationship?

matterundermind · 2018-08-16T13:15:45+00:00

Depends on what you're looking for. For hookups not much, for relationships everything.

Khiv_ · 2018-08-16T14:00:30+00:00

Do bios matter? yes.

Do bios matter anywhere near as much as attractiveness? no.

I've never used Tinder but if I ever made a bio I would only use it to link my instagram and list (true) stuff that increase my SMV, like just a simple list with 2 or 3 cool hobbies, my area of work which is awesome, maybe some trivia like the fact that I love dogs or whatever, as long as it is true and not just some made up shit to attract people.

EnvironmentalTwister · 2018-08-16T17:19:15+00:00

For bumble, yes.

poopfeast180 · 2018-08-16T20:24:28+00:00

better to just tell a funny joke that also demonstrates a little interesting fact about you.

nobody reads a length whole bio. why should they?

Jackknive · 2018-08-17T07:06:57+00:00

I used to sort by proximity to me, I didn’t want to get involved in LDR. Then scroll by photo. Profile text was almost equally important. Initially photo caught my eye, but didn’t message or message back men who didn’t seem like a match in profile. Was looking for someone with commonalities and overall tone.

sleepmaintenance · 2018-09-10T15:53:53+00:00

It absolutely makes a difference. They have so many options not distinguishing yourself is a missed opportunity. Also the matches you get are better and already have some interest in you that's not completely superficial.

Belgiumreaper · 2018-08-16T16:27:22+00:00

No, just aks yourself. Whats in it for her. Engine

Title	Do bio's even matter in online dating?
Author	Zac____
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Date	August 16, 2018 8:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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