Do you worry about your stuff getting jacked when you bring a girl home?

ihahp · 2014-10-02T08:30:32+00:00

i ask them to clap their hands rapidly while I'm in the bathroom, so I can hear that they're not rifling through my stuff.

monogamousprostitute · 2014-10-02T05:18:15+00:00

How do you bring women home without running into the crazy ones that will steal your shit or break shit while she's there?

Don't leave important valuables laying around before going out if you plan on bringing her back. Can't weed out all the crazies but be alert enough to catch red flags.

Also does it matter if I live with my parents?

I would prefer not to go home with someone who lives with their parents but I wouldn't ultimately judge a person on it. If I was truly interested in pursuing them, and was planning on getting a place then I would wait. Otherwise I would go with it if they are cool with it.

Should I just try and go back to her place?

Although I don't disagree with hinting it, do not invite yourself over.

HATElanta · 2014-10-02T14:34:34+00:00

My mom doesn't let me bring girls home. It would be awkward since we share a bed. So, I just go to their place and steal all their shit.

xstandtall · 2014-10-02T05:55:50+00:00

yeah, my sweaters

whoisNO · 2014-10-02T12:33:19+00:00

Nah, I'm not gonna steal your shit.

But I am TOTES going to look through your bathroom cabinets for fun.

atooraya · 2014-10-02T15:53:36+00:00

True Story:

Went to Playa del Carmen and pulled a chick at a club. Walked back to my condo that I rented for the weekend and the security guard wouldn't let her back in. He kept insisting she was a prostitute and was going to rob me. I was super drunk and we both convinced him she was my girlfriend. Walked into the condo and she was in my room and I hid my wallet and passport in the microwave just in case.

Woke up the next morning together and my buddy had pulled another girl. We all made breakfast together and I opened the microwave and they saw me take my wallet and passport out and I told them I was scared and hid them in there. We all had a pretty good laugh about it.

asiank1ng · 2014-10-02T05:54:37+00:00

I've never really worried about women stealing shit from my room/place. You need to find out from the interaction whether she respects you or not. If you're holding frame, she should have no reason to steal from you, because she actually likes and respects you.

I remember I was out for dinner with a couple of coworkers who I've been living with for 2 months at this point, and there was this one particular girl who is known to be very sociopathic. All me, me, me. She does shit without asking, or telling fucking betas and orbiters to do something for her because she expects it. Well, this smartass tried to pick at my food, thinking that I would let her get away with it.

"Is that chicken asiank1ng? Omg I should have gotten that !" Tries to pick at my food

"Excuse me, what the fuck are you doing? It'd be nice if you can be polite once in a while."

"Ugh, you're so selfish."

I ignored her comment and kept eating with a stupid grin. I was grinning because she did the same exact thing to some beta afterwards and he didn't say shit.

Ever since then, she has never tried anything stupid like that with me. I've been told stories where she would steal girls clothes, steal food from the fridge, steal money and drugs. But nope, still had all my belongings.

So no, don't worry about women stealing stuff from your place. As long as you have her genuine respect (by holding frame) , she won't try any silly shit. Women do that for people they don't respect . But yet, be weary of the people you let into your home. Use your common sense and you should be fine.

mistersunman · 2014-10-02T13:31:28+00:00

i experienced this last time i brought a girl home.

She was kinda drunk and falling all over the place, almost destroying all my expensive stuff... Her friends I think stole money from my roomates wallet...

Not2original · 2014-10-02T13:47:50+00:00

I hadn't thought about it, but I like to think I am a good judge of character. If I think your this type of person, you won't ever come into my house.

but now that I think of it, all my high dollar value items are in one room of the house. There are only three places they should ever be in my house kitchen, den, bedroom. If I leave them alone and they are not in one of those areas I'll be suspicious.

dsade · 2014-10-02T15:11:42+00:00

I just take them to Paul Allen's apartment instead of my own. Helps in case they escape, too.

apopnotasoda · 2014-10-02T18:04:03+00:00

Doesn't matter got laid

Yakko_Warner_esq · 2014-10-02T07:23:45+00:00

There is a reason hotels were invented.

Link_GR · 2014-10-02T13:13:57+00:00

Wait. This actually happens? They usually leave shit at my place in a weird "marking their territory" kinda way. I've never had anything missing but then again I don't leave valuables around. Also, I don't usually leave them unattended...

guitarguru333 · 2014-10-02T14:37:11+00:00

idk man, i guess its a risk. i have a home studio, so, its not like she can fit my massive speakers into her purse and split while im asleep. I did however know a girl once who thought it was funny to reach into my back pocket and take my wallet before we had sex. for the life of me i still cant figure out why. its not like she did it very sneakily either. It was very obvious. idk man. watch out

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-02T15:38:07+00:00

NO (might be a quality issue), no, depends but probably no, and only if it seems safer to go blind (her place) rather than an awkward situation (I don't know what your particular home situation is other than parents).

Cuisine, daygamer.net

LogicManifesto · 2014-10-02T15:44:13+00:00

Also does it matter if I live with my parents?

LOL YES IT DEFINITELY DOES

Should I just try and go back to her place?

-> definitely try to do this every single time, it's what I do, and the girls feel more comfortable since its their own place, plus you can eat their food after you fuck em

2014-10-02T19:03:10+00:00

I just put all my valuables out of sight or secure them somehow.

Dark-Ulfberht · 2014-10-02T19:59:57+00:00

If you can, always go back to the girl's place, or get a hotel for one night hook-ups.

It is unpleasant to have girls show up at your place when they are not wanted.

johnnymaddick · 2014-10-02T08:59:24+00:00

Can a girl steal something from you? The answer is in the question. I will explain.

It has never happened to me. But the mere thought of something can be stolen has never crossed my mind.

In your case, since you have this thoughts, you must be worried, as your thoughts create your reality, and more likely you will find that crazy chick who would want to snatch something from you.

I made a short video on how your thoughts affect your reality. It is about dreams, but fears work exactly the same. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LI2HLpa_MWU&list=PLawWtI3M1n0IBlxSOIABZlS9EWLeZJ4lA&index=1

Parents don't matter as long as you are comfortable with it. If you project comfort the girl will go and have sex anywhere. I brought girls to my parents', grand parents', the house with roommates - to name a few weird places. Damn, I had sex on the sleeping train in an open compartment with 60 people around.

You can always go to her place. The primal fear of unknown territories my kick in your head, but if you know how to deal with it, shouldn't be a big deal. The smooth way of suggesting that you should go to her house is like this:

"I will walk with you to your place if you feed me. What do you have in your fridge? I need to wake up early tomorrow, so do not offer me something that requires long cooking!"

Johnny Maddick, The Man, The Legend / www.DatingWithAccent.com

Title	Do you worry about your stuff getting jacked when you bring a girl home?
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Date	October 2, 2014 4:53 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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