Does anyone else feel "distant" from their friends when it comes to seduction? (Explanation inside)

bhwung · 2012-07-13T05:59:53+00:00

I never offer advice when it's not requested. Maybe that will help the situation. You can't force people to listen and heed your advice when they don't want it or don't believe it.

nycprowl · 2012-07-13T07:10:46+00:00

Don't even bother trying to give advice. I had the same issue with my friend, and he thinks I'm a raging asshole because I won't settle down with the first girl who shows me attention.

So yes, be friends with your bud... but don't even bother trying to give advice unless they ask it.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-07-13T13:48:31+00:00

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

skyshock · 2012-07-13T08:47:11+00:00

Me and my friends sometimes have discussions involving women, or one of us will talk about a girl they are talking to and we each try to give them tips.

what in the fuck are all of you talking about saying hes giving unwanted help and acting like a douchebag?

with that being said, you can only do so much. if they dont want to believe you, even when youre showing them it works, then forget about it. dont burn any bridges if theyre truly your friends, but it kinda sounds like a lost cause.

itsmevichet · 2012-07-13T14:05:31+00:00

Not everyone is ready to learn this stuff, bro.

Even beyond that, even if they can believe why it works, and have an idea of how it works, they might not be able to actually go out and apply the knowledge.

You'll know when a friend is ready - they'll start asking you for advice and really applying it.

uTorrent · 2012-07-15T06:41:29+00:00

I offer advice when people request it. I have my own group that runs like a well-oiled machine.

blinkyone · 2012-07-13T06:00:28+00:00

There are a million scenarios, which you can talk about females. Dissolve the ego, the need to "help" your friends.

Mannimarco · 2012-07-13T06:15:22+00:00

I have a friend like you, all of his advice is bullshit that only works because he is attractive. It sounds really stupid to hear and makes you look clueless.

2012-07-13T05:40:48+00:00

Its so hard to give advice too because you sound like a doosher

Title	Does anyone else feel "distant" from their friends when it comes to seduction? (Explanation inside)
Author	TheGreatestRedditor
Upvotes	11
Comments	16
Date	July 13, 2012 5:17 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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