Does ignoring help?

hunterpua · 2025-10-04T23:09:29+00:00

Yes. The problem for most guys arises when she starts showing a good amount of interest.

Many guys here have talked about the sudden switch in women's behaviour when they start reciprocating her interest.

That's because it doesn't make sense for you to show her interest at that point.

You're skipping a step.

If you acted disinterested and then suddenly flip to being interested in her, just because she showed you interest, you come off as extremely manipulative.

You basically reveal that you were faking that disinterest and playing games.

But if before you show interest, you challenge her and get her to prove herself to you, and express your approval when she does something you like, all of a sudden your interest makes total sense.

You didn't just flip. She legit had to work to open you up and win your approval.

That's how you wanna handle it so that she loves every part of the seduction and she gets your interest only at the point when she would actually love to get it.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-04T23:08:34+00:00

Don't purposefully ignore people. But you're right to suggest you don't have to bring up her beauty at every turn. You can still comment on something like looks, just be graceful about it and don't wait for her reaction. Immediately move onto a new subject afterwards. That's part of being a gentleman. You can be nice and polite without fishing for validation or expecting any kind of results from it.

Altruistic-Patient-8 · 2025-10-04T23:55:15+00:00

No, if you don't find them attractive, then don't date them. You want to compliment the person you're attracted too.

Cornichonsale · 2025-10-05T03:43:12+00:00

Work on yourself instead attraction can't be negociated.

bruvvanice · 2025-10-04T23:01:01+00:00

Yes, but don't be rude or mean about it. Just be busy and don't prioritize her.

Tatleman68 · 2025-10-04T23:06:45+00:00

Could be, it could make them insecure and start to chase you

cjunc2013 · 2025-10-05T00:23:06+00:00

Nope, not if ur not attractive 😂😂

jackthehat6 · 2025-10-05T09:29:35+00:00

in what way. If you walk into a bar and there's a stunner there, and you ignore her/don't look at her etc, she's not gonna suddenly be attracted to you UNLESS she thinks you're hot. There's no tricks to MAKE a girl want you lol - as much as we all try!

Title	Does ignoring help?
Author	Easy_Manager3026
Upvotes	25
Comments	28
Date	October 4, 2025 10:57 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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